jwieloch Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 Okay, so I work out at a small gym where everyone knows everyone. I met this one girl about 6 months ago. Anyway, we hung out a couple times but nothing serious. Anyway, I started to really like her so one night we shared a taxi ride from a party and I asked her out when we got to her place. I made it clear I really liked her more than a friend at that point. Anyway, she initially said yes but later pulled back when I followed up with her 2 days later as she claimed she had a "special" moment with a friend of mine who was leaving for a 6 month temp job anyway. She was kind of a bitch to me about the whole thing which hurt and we ended up not talking for a couple weeks. Then one night I saw her at a party and we sort of buried the hatchet if you will. Okay so we started to warm up to each other as friends at the gym again and became comfortable around each other. Either way, last Saturday, we had a birthday party for my friend who was on a temporary job and he flew back to town for it. We were kind of flirtatious during the party and she ended up at the bar making out with ME at my friend's party who she likes? Now I don't know what to think. I didn't hear from her this week. I sent her a text and she sent me a short one back. Now I don't know how to proceed. I don't want to look like I'm desperate and ask her out again. Part of me wants me to ask her to just hang out though. I'm not sure. What is going on? Is she attracted to me? Is she unsure? We did drink that night which loosened us up but I don't think she was making out with me against her will. Please help!
jobaba Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 Okay, so I work out at a small gym where everyone knows everyone. I met this one girl about 6 months ago. Anyway, we hung out a couple times but nothing serious. Anyway, I started to really like her so one night we shared a taxi ride from a party and I asked her out when we got to her place. I made it clear I really liked her more than a friend at that point. Anyway, she initially said yes but later pulled back when I followed up with her 2 days later as she claimed she had a "special" moment with a friend of mine who was leaving for a 6 month temp job anyway. She was kind of a bitch to me about the whole thing which hurt and we ended up not talking for a couple weeks. Then one night I saw her at a party and we sort of buried the hatchet if you will. Okay so we started to warm up to each other as friends at the gym again and became comfortable around each other. Either way, last Saturday, we had a birthday party for my friend who was on a temporary job and he flew back to town for it. We were kind of flirtatious during the party and she ended up at the bar making out with ME at my friend's party who she likes? Now I don't know what to think. I didn't hear from her this week. I sent her a text and she sent me a short one back. Now I don't know how to proceed. I don't want to look like I'm desperate and ask her out again. Part of me wants me to ask her to just hang out though. I'm not sure. What is going on? Is she attracted to me? Is she unsure? We did drink that night which loosened us up but I don't think she was making out with me against her will. Please help! Eeech. Did your friend that she likes see you guys? If he did, it sounds like she was making out with you to make him jealous. She sounds like a big time troublemaker either way. Stay away. Far away.
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