CantLoseHer Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 Just looking for some thoughts or advice on my situation: So my ex broke up with me after a year and a half relationship and ended up dating a guy within 2 weeks after we discussed in our relationship that if we ever ended we would wait like atleast 2 months and just do whatever to not hurt one another. Ya anyways i was pretty upset and nasty words were sent which doesn't excuse my behavior. Basically I sent 2 long, hateful texts the day I found out without any response from her. Probably a little over a month goes by, and for whatever reason, I don't know, I emailed her to appologize for what I said,and that it was out of spite which isnt an excuse, and was basically a sincere appology. She ends up blowing it out of proportion as a ploy that I want her back when that's not the case because I've been doing fine without her, I just didn't want to end on bad terms seeing as how we attend the same college, mutual friends, and whatever. So she ends up telling me to never speak to her again and so forth and so I haven't, I even deleted her number, pics, and basically anything to do with her. I recieved a message today saying " Please get rid of any remnants of me. Really hurtful and evil things were said towards me by you, so just get rid of everything so I don't have to be associated anymore." And I recieved one message on facebook, and one from her email basically saying the same thing, and I don't understand why she really is going to this much trouble to say it twice lol. I'm guessing it's either her ploy to try and talk to me seeing as I'm not a bad guy, I'm assuming A. She is drunk or B. That her and her boyfriend just broke up, and that she honestly just doesn't know how to be alone. or C. That she is just trying to bring up old stuff to bring me down, seeing as how ive been progressing in my life. What the motives are, I don't know, but it has to be something if she legitly told me she never wants to speak to me again before and initiates contact even after threatening police on me if I continued contacting her.(when in reality i sent her 2 mean texts 1 month, then nothing, then an appology) Honestly don't know what to do, any thoughts or input is appreciated.
wilsonx Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 Well you have to ask yourself a question? Do you want to be with her again? Do you want to be with a girl that left you for another guy? If the answer is no, delete the messages and let it go because it doesnt matter what she sent you
smudge21 Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 Like Wilson says, decide what you want and take it from there. Personally it sounds like she is acting up a bit and looking for a reaction or at least some attention, but not in the "want you back" kinda' way. Whatever you want from her in the future, I'd ignore this now as it's clear her heads not in the right place to talk about the past or even try again with you. Any communication could only end up with more anger. Just avoid any contact and let it be for now.
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