quietGuy13 Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 In some of the MTV Real world and stuff like that, even in that things called Jesery shore.. The people there sleep with dif people each day. My question is, is this part of modern dating or what? I also hear that thing called friend with benefits. Wow, is that what dating is now? Or is this just something almost nobody does and just happens in tv?
Wolf18 Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 Yes it does, but it's not as common as MTV makes it out to be. The type of males MTV puts on Jersey Shore and The Real World are guys who work out 5 hours a day and make a living off looking like they do. If you dont inject drugs into your ass like Ronny or have millions of dollars , don't expect to sleep with a new woman every night. This new sexual "liberation" sucks for men, we've got to work our asses off to get with some goober's tuesday night leftovers.
Sanman Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 The 'Real World' is not the real world at all. The show proves that if a tv camera crew follows you around, you can score some whore who wants to be on tv often enough that they can edit the show to make it seem like they are sleeping with a new girl every night.
Dust Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 I personaly don't think they are having quality relationships. If you want to settle and just sleep with a different girl every day you easily could. You just have to be aggressive.
AHardDaysNight Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 It does happen, but you have to be good looking for it to happen.
oaks Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 I have a different question: Why would you want to sleep with a different girl every day?
Cee Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 This is a glamorized version of the consequences of drug addiction. Less than zero lifestyle basically. People end up with HIV, in rehab or dead if they keep up this pace for too long.
alphamale Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 dude, shut off the TV and open up a book or magazine
tman666 Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 I can't see how being with a different person every night wouldn't kill your soul.
Ross MwcFan Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 I think if it was really common, then there wouldn't be that much of a demand for porn. I think what you're describing is what most men probably dream about.
xxoo Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 I think what you're describing is what most men probably dream about. Honest question.....why?
silvermercy Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 (edited) I think if it was really common, then there wouldn't be that much of a demand for porn. I think what you're describing is what most men probably dream about. According to some men on other threads defending porn, porn is just a release? A fantasy? That men wouldn't even DREAM hurting or cheating on their partners even if the opportunity occurred? So which one is it then? Should we women dump our partners now because these men are simply settling? Maybe we could live like those Amazon women... who knows? And just when I was getting reassured about porn and men... Thanks for speaking out aloud though... Edited November 4, 2011 by silvermercy
grkBoy Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 No...it's not real. Even playas I know are not getting laid every day. Usually they're getting a hookup 3-4 times a month. Generally they'll find a bootycall on weekends.
Metis Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 I have a different question: Why would you want to sleep with a different girl every day? ^^^ THIS. Look: It's perfectly healthy to aspire to a regular sex life. And I recognize that monogamy isn't for everyone; some people need a bit of variety for their sex lives to be truly fulfilling. But a different girl every day? Why? People who aspire to do this aren't some sexual giants. Quite the contrary: they are sexually defective in that they see sex primarily as a means of proving something to other people, rather than experiencing physical pleasure. Show me a man who either sleeps with a different woman every night, or wants to, and I'll show you a man who is: (1) lousy in bed and utterly unable to satisfy a woman; (2) incapable of enjoying sex; and/or (3) in denial over either his low libido or homosexuality. There are only two healthy reasons to want to have sex, and they overlap to a great extent: (1) for sheer physical pleasure*; and/or (2) for intimacy. If you want to have sex for any other reason, it's not normal. --------------------------------------------------------------------- *Sure, you get pleasure if you sleep with a different person every night, technically speaking. However, the physical quality of sex improves if two people have sex repeatedly, as they become more comfortable around each other and learn each other's preferences.
Ross MwcFan Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 Honest question.....why? Because to most men the idea of doing that is amazing. I found the idea of that to be amazing too.
silvermercy Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 Because to most men the idea of doing that is amazing. I found the idea of that to be amazing too. Ice creams are cool and I love them... Don't want or NEED to have them every day though. PS: I think most men would NOT find it "cool". Some young teenage boys might but they will soon learn it's not the case.
Ross MwcFan Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 According to some men on other threads defending porn, porn is just a release? A fantasy? That men wouldn't even DREAM hurting or cheating on their partners even if the opportunity occurred? So which one is it then? Should we women dump our partners now because these men are simply settling? Maybe we could live like those Amazon women... who knows? And just when I was getting reassured about porn and men... Thanks for speaking out aloud though... I'm not sure what your point is, but I'm not talking about men cheating or dreaming of cheating on their partners.
Ross MwcFan Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 Ice creams are cool and I love them... Don't want or NEED to have them every day though. PS: I think most men would NOT find it "cool". Some young teenage boys might but they will soon learn it's not the case. I'm just saying what I believe.
silvermercy Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 I'm not sure what your point is, but I'm not talking about men cheating or dreaming of cheating on their partners. Then what were you taking about? You said most men dream of doing that every day: sleeping with a different woman. And most men are not single - not all their lives at least. I see a paradox.
Ross MwcFan Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 ^^^ THIS. Look: It's perfectly healthy to aspire to a regular sex life. And I recognize that monogamy isn't for everyone; some people need a bit of variety for their sex lives to be truly fulfilling. But a different girl every day? Why? People who aspire to do this aren't some sexual giants. Quite the contrary: they are sexually defective in that they see sex primarily as a means of proving something to other people, rather than experiencing physical pleasure. Show me a man who either sleeps with a different woman every night, or wants to, and I'll show you a man who is: (1) lousy in bed and utterly unable to satisfy a woman; (2) incapable of enjoying sex; and/or (3) in denial over either his low libido or homosexuality. There are only two healthy reasons to want to have sex, and they overlap to a great extent: (1) for sheer physical pleasure*; and/or (2) for intimacy. If you want to have sex for any other reason, it's not normal. --------------------------------------------------------------------- *Sure, you get pleasure if you sleep with a different person every night, technically speaking. However, the physical quality of sex improves if two people have sex repeatedly, as they become more comfortable around each other and learn each other's preferences. Who says men wouldn't want to do that just for pleasure? I wanted to do it just for pleasure.
silvermercy Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 I'm just saying what I believe. And I believe (know) you are wrong.
Metis Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 Who says men wouldn't want to do that just for pleasure? I wanted to do it just for pleasure. Because I explained on the bottom that you actually minimize your pleasure by having sex exclusively with strangers.
Ross MwcFan Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 Then what were you taking about? You said most men dream of doing that every day: sleeping with a different woman. And most men are not single - not all their lives at least. I see a paradox. Well what I mean is, is that I believe most men who have a partner would really like the idea of sleeping with a different woman everyday if they didn't have a partner.
xxoo Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 Because to most men the idea of doing that is amazing. I found the idea of that to be amazing too. Sounds awful to me, but I'm a woman. Quantity is better than quality? I wonder if a man who has had truly mindblowing sex with a particular woman once, as compared to more pedestrian sex with other partners, would share this opinion. Have you had that experience?
silvermercy Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 Who says men wouldn't want to do that just for pleasure? I wanted to do it just for pleasure. Why with a different woman though?? If it's just for pleasure, then why seek a DIFFERENT woman?
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