Makavelli Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 I posted my story earlier on here in vivid detail, Ill break it down and explain my current situation maybe someone can give me a heads up on WTF. Basically, I met this girl online 4 years ago, we struck gold as far as feelings for eachother and I left the state I was in to move to Texas to be with her. At the time I was unemployed and had $500 to my name. I was so in love with this girl I risked it all to be with her, I had a car, and $500. I stayed in hotels for awhile, eventually found, a job started making decent money, and moved into an apartment. Ive done everything for this girls always been there for her no matter what. Paid her cell phone bill, take her to nice places to eat, talk to her everynight, massages, surprises, helped her family out ALOT especially her dad. Times started getting stressful since she moved from this current location (Dallas, TX) to another location about 80 miles away (1 Hour Drive for me). She started to become depressed and I guess take her anger out on me, I love her and understood what she was going through and I "Let Her Get Away With it to an Extent". The last 4 weeks, I had surgery, had to move, had to change jobs, and I have family dieing in the hospital. All at once this is going on, I started developing Heart Palpitations and she was hardly calling me at this point. She seemed pretty distant wouldn't sound happy on the phone...... different tone of voice... seemed very angry.... "Said I Complained to Much" Sure as hell October 18, 2011 I get this horrible feeling in my mind around 9:30 PM. Like something was totally wrong, I haven't talked to her all day I gave her space because she seemed she wanted it, 10:08 rolls around I get a TXT message. Basically saying your a very smart, helpful, sexy , nice, caring boyfriend, but my love isn't there etc.... Than she turns the phone off, " I paid the bill and paid for her phone, she gives it to her dad hence hands it to me a few days later". Haven't heard from her since, I talk to her dad and her brother but it's pointless... I have written her hand written letters with no response AT ALL. I know I should be doing No Contact, All I did was the letters... WTF? I move across the USA to be with this girl, we planend to get married WAYYYY in the future like 7 years etc. once are goals are accomplished I plan to be an RN and I get cut off at the neck, no response what soever. I lost 23 pounds since that day it has me in HELL. I work out and do the no carb diet... tell you what depression is the best way to loose weight. Any Advice besides "Move on and Find Someone Else?" I have no friends, no family... Im alone..... In HELL>
ChelseaLS Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 How old are you both? GIGS?... Gigs has no age limit.
Author Makavelli Posted November 4, 2011 Author Posted November 4, 2011 I just turned 27 in August and shes about to turn 25, im new to the forums... what is GIGS?
Author Makavelli Posted November 4, 2011 Author Posted November 4, 2011 I have an understanding of GIGS, there is 100% sure no one else though I completely confirmed its a for sure thing. Would GIGS still apply even without someone else?
mike588 Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 I just turned 27 in August and shes about to turn 25, im new to the forums... what is GIGS? GIGS = The grass is greener on the other side syndrome ,of the fence,,, look around this site, it will explain it in more detail.
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