rubberball Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 Been broken up over two months, very limited to no contact even though we work together. So the other day she calls and and reports a problem ( I run the computer department) I say okay I'll look into the issue, and get off the phone. When we were together I would drop whatever I was doing to help her. So I find out the issue is out of my hands, a provider issue, so I call her back and her boss answers I tell him what I know and he says okay. The next night, halloween, my son trick or treated at her house, she lives down the road. Her new boyfriend and daughter answer the door, gives my son candy and all that jazz and we keep going. The next day at work she calls the office and tells one of my guys that I wont talk to her and she needs help picking out a computer for her daughter. He helps her and that is that. He comes into my office later and tells me I said that's cool. why is she now telling people that work for me that I won't talk to her? Is it a guilt trip on my employee? "Oh, he won't do it, you have to help me." or for them to come ask me questions I just can't think of a way that saying that makes her look good.
EgoJoe Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 Because you're handling yourself with dignity and grace: her ego doesn't like this. Just do nothing. Smile, nod, snicker joyfully etc. and carry on about your day because she's not your problem. Try and forward all issues she brings to your department to someone else if you can. Let her know what it's really like when you won't talk to her. FYI: Bitches be tripping.
Author rubberball Posted November 4, 2011 Author Posted November 4, 2011 I certainly did anything she asked of me, perhaps now she sees how far out of my way I went to make things easier on her. Egojoe, you made me smile with your comment.
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