BookerT Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 One of my best friends who's a girl thinks it's hilarious. My girlfriend's totally busting my balls and she wants to give my girlfriend a huge high five. Let me explain what happened. A few months ago I launched my book. "Life's too short to date men like me" (it's on amazon.com). I wrote the book after hearing loads of my female friends complaining about all the a**holes they've been dating, so I decided to write a book explaining systematically how to spot a**holes EARLY on, the common mistakes women make, how to attract decent guys and maintain a relationship with a man. Now the title of the book says it all. I wasn't a good boyfriend to my ex, we dated for 7 years and finally split up. I just couldn't bring myself to marry her, but I also missed her whenever we broke up so the relationship dragged on for way too long. I also didn't want to judge other men from a moral high ground so I decided to use a funny title and to also explain what type of man I was. Vowing to change, and after being single for a year (I had the chance to meet loads of girls but didn't start a relationship till ready) when I met my current girlfriend I told myself I'll do it right this time, I'll treat her well, be totally honest to her, and do the things that makes her happy. I also gave her my book to read, and it's ironic, despite the title and the fact that she noticed I fit most of the characteristics of a classic player (according to my own book) she decided to carry on with the relationship. But being a strong girl inside, and to make sure she is treated with respect in our relationship she also started applying some of the things I wrote about in the second half of the book. Specifically, drawing boundaries asap, and using "The Ultimate Threat". The ultimate threat is letting a man know if he does things like not respecting a girl constantly, lying to her, or cheating on her, then she will not hesitate to leave the man. The key to this working though, is instead of just saying it, the girl has to show it's a real threat rather than a bluff. Many woman cling on to their a**hole boyfriends even when the men don't treat them with respect, which is why this method doesn't work. But I can clearly see in my girlfriend's eyes she means it. She'll tear up when she's not happy and will tell me although she loves me, she won't hesitate to leave me, so I better treat her well. Long story short. I don't dare to cross any of her boundaries, because I know she's serious about her threat. She'll leave me in a second if I don't treat her well. When I wrote this book, a lot of my guy friends thought I'll be using it to pick up girls. Now they all think I'm pu**y whipped, I don't go out with them anymore to get drunk, and spend too much time with my girlfriend, in other words I've changed and sold them out. My best female friend thinks this is hilarious, and I personally think my girlfriend's worth it, but I wish I had more freedom. But then again, if I had more freedom, maybe I'll be the bad boy I used to be. Maybe this is all for the better.
Author BookerT Posted November 4, 2011 Author Posted November 4, 2011 bump! everyone should see what a pathetic fool you are.... This is quite funny. A lot of ladies read this on my blog and were like "What the hell? You've finally learnt to treat a girl with respect. How does that make you pu**y whipped?" Totally different views depending on what perspective a person's deciding to look at it from.
Author BookerT Posted November 4, 2011 Author Posted November 4, 2011 " A lot of ladies read this on my blog " - you must be a fashion designer or gay...or both...what do you know about women Nancy? Are you a troll or just that shallow?
Author BookerT Posted November 4, 2011 Author Posted November 4, 2011 Are you so gay you have to ask girls how Men should be? I didn't ask. They commented on my blog. I just find it funny how polarized the comments are. This isn't even a man/woman thing. It's the same power struggle that can happen in any sort of relationship.
Art_Critic Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 good for you.. here's to your success. I read some of the freebie pages.. it certainly has a flare and much truth to some of what I read.. good luck... on a side note.. do you know that the advice and material ie: posts here on loveshack are copyrighted and you don't own the copyright to publish them ? Hopefully you wrote the book and we didn't
Author BookerT Posted November 5, 2011 Author Posted November 5, 2011 good for you.. here's to your success. I read some of the freebie pages.. it certainly has a flare and much truth to some of what I read.. good luck... on a side note.. do you know that the advice and material ie: posts here on loveshack are copyrighted and you don't own the copyright to publish them ? Hopefully you wrote the book and we didn't Nah, I didn't use any of the stories from here or material. I did come here though to take a look at what topics came up and what people were sensitive about.
Art_Critic Posted November 5, 2011 Posted November 5, 2011 take a look at what topics came up and what people were sensitive about. So you have a topic on anal bleaching then ? I hope you sell many books....
xoxoDaniellexoxo Posted November 5, 2011 Posted November 5, 2011 I don't think that makes you whipped, it makes you trustworthy, noone wants their boundaries crossed, and it's good you respect them. I also had a guy read this and he said if you really love someone you should respect their limits, his friends used to say the same about him til they found a girl and then they udnerstood that it's not being whipped at all it is just caring.
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