dave22 Posted November 3, 2011 Posted November 3, 2011 I had a bad break up over the weekend and am wondering how to handle it. First I got jealous of her talking to another guy. I don't know why, but I guess it had seemed to me for the last while that she was trying to distance herself from me and I thought she was getting ready to break up with me and maybe I just couldn't handle the stress anymore. Anyways, I pouted, the next day sent her a text apologizing. As the weekend went on, we had another fight, I sent a couple more texts apologizing, and then, because she wasn't talking to me I sent an email telling her we shouldn't see each other anymore. We met the next night and I started to explain myself and she told me I had been driving her nuts, that I wasn't giving her any space, and that this had happened once before (it had about a month ago) and she wasn't going to forgive me this time. She also told me how she felt about me, how she really wanted it to work out, but I just hadn't been giving her enough space. I had no idea this is how she felt. I also realized she was right that I hadn't been giving her any space, I guess I was just worried she was going to end it. Anyways, it was pretty clear by the end of the conversation that it was over. At the end we did hug, she told me I was a good guy and that we just needed some space. But I know her and I know she is mad and that she is unlikely to change her mind now. I know I screwed up, I shouldn't have broke up with her. We spent a lot of time together this past year and 90% of the time we get along really great. She won't have trouble finding someone better than me, I know, but it will be hard for me to find someone else like her. I really screwed up and am not sure how I could possibly get her back.
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