MrSimple Posted November 3, 2011 Posted November 3, 2011 Righto, into Day 5 of NC now. But screw it, not a single day has passed by without me thinking of her. Althought I've lost the urge to check my phone every now and then, it still tweaks occasionally. My friends at work wonder why I'm so positive after this happened to me. I told them, moping around ain't gonna help much, or rather, is NOT going to help at all. But when I'm at home in my room alone, the memories just hit replay over and over again, and I just can't do anything to block them out. Guess I have to wait it out. Till then, I gotta stop thinking of doing anything to check up on her, coz I know, it's gonna set me back to where I first started. Wonder how long this will last~ Sign...
skyle Posted November 3, 2011 Posted November 3, 2011 I'm in the same position as you. I am at home, day off work and just at home doing nothing. It's really difficult but its just a phase and you have to to just ride it out. But you're doing well, I've gone two days and a bit and my ex gf has messaged me and i've done well to ignore her/LC her and today I said i'd speak to her and it's time to tell her she needs to think whether we're more than friends or nothing at all because I can't do mates.
Author MrSimple Posted November 3, 2011 Author Posted November 3, 2011 I'm just waiting for her rebound to end, then move in. She's probably mad at me for not giving her the answer she wants when she was asking me for help. But heck it. How long will that last? She'll probably be thinking "why didn't he help me?" Kind of a psychology trick on her mind, but it is gonna keep me in there for awhile longer at least. Either way, I have no place in between. It's either I'm there, or I'm not there. Let's wait till it reaches till next sat, then see how much progress there has been.
kittenkit Posted November 3, 2011 Posted November 3, 2011 5 days - well done - keep going I've been 6 weeks and I still think about him every day - every time I have a moment to myself my mind wanders. I can't help it. But one day I won't think of him and then he'll probably ring me because life has its own special sense of humour that way
ChelseaLS Posted November 3, 2011 Posted November 3, 2011 5 days - well done - keep going I've been 6 weeks and I still think about him every day - every time I have a moment to myself my mind wanders. I can't help it. But one day I won't think of him and then he'll probably ring me because life has its own special sense of humour that way I bought a calendar and everyday I cross a day that I made it through. It actually feels pretty good. I look forward to making that X on the calendar. One day I will forget to place an X down, that'll be a good day. I try to force myself to go out with friends more often then not. That way I don't have time to think about him. Granted I think it's healthy to sit and cry, but not all the time and so I get out when I can.
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