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Just curious of your opinion... living with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. When i met him i thought he would be "the one". We started out very strong, but things have been diminishing sexually for past few years. I was a little worried but had hope it would improve. Then not so long ago, he asked me to move out saying he was no longer attracted to me. Before i could move, he changed his mind and said it was fine now and that he was just afraid of getting closer. I'm having a tough time believing him. Is it possible for a guy to ever say that and not mean it??? Thanks

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Hey okidoki

 

A diminishing sex life is usually a sign that a guy's losing interest in his girl. Based on my experience, it's usually a indicator that the guys getting it on with another girl. Him telling you to leave could be a sign that he's ready to move on with his life without you. Him changing his mind at the last second might have meant he felt sorry for you, and at the same time, still cares for you.

 

Confront him regarding this issue, and try working things out. If it doesn't work, then it'd be wise to find someone better.

 

Hope this helps

 

Max

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