Rayke Posted November 3, 2011 Posted November 3, 2011 I'll try and keep this as short and informative as possible. I met this chick over the summer (K, for short). I wasn't very attracted to her since I was kind of chasing another girl at the time (M, for short), but I could tell that she was being flirty with me. (I'm sure you can already tell where this is going.) About a month ago, K told me via text that she had "a huge crush on me", and, at the time, I was *still* pursuing M. I kind of playfully brushed it off as if she was joking. I finally, successfully, scored a few dates with M. And after going out with her a couple of times, I realized that I really didn't like her that much. During this time, in the last month, K has began dating another guy that she is now referring to as "her boyfriend". And during this time, in the last month, I have realized that K is the girl I really want to be going out with/dating. She came to my house last night and hung out, just the two of us, for a couple of hours drinking wine. Not really something girl in a committed relationship should be doing, right? She has mentioned on one occasion that her boyfriend is "just kind of there". Like, maybe she wasn't totally into him. But, last night, she mentioned that he is really nice to her and she's not used to guys being as good to her as he's being to her. She also mentioned that they don't really see each other a whole lot so it will take a while for them to "get sick of each other". So I'm getting mixed signals there. So also commented on a picture of us and said we were "cute". And finally, last night, after inviting me to hang out with her AGAIN on Friday night, she posted on Twitter (I know, sounds like we're in high school) something along the lines of "I regret not getting to know (me) earlier in life. Glad we're friends." My friends say that means I have been banished to the friend-zone. But, like I said, she invited me to hang out Friday (with just her. No BF seemingly in sight). I'm thinking about just asking her what's up with her and her BF, if she's really happy, etc. Just to try and open it up a bit. I refuse to believe that a girl who, less than a month ago, told me she had a huge crush on me could be over it that quick. I'm also an optimist, so... I would never do anything physical with her until I knew she had ended things with him, but is it too much for me even mention "us" when she is currently in a two-week old relationship? Thanks for any help. Sorry for the wall of text...
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