jacoby87 Posted November 2, 2011 Posted November 2, 2011 My university gets out over a week earlier than my SO's does, and she suggested that i come up and visit her. I thought this was a great idea, and booked a trip to visit her....but i am coming up 2 days earlier than she thinks. I managed to get two of her suitemates phone numbers, and hopefully they will let me in. I get to her dorm around 7:30... any tips on how to surprise her? Should i call her down saying i sent her breakfast (she goes to school in NYC, apparently they deliver), or should i have one of her friends let me into their dorm and surprise her there? Or something else...?
Author jacoby87 Posted November 2, 2011 Author Posted November 2, 2011 (edited) Thats 7:30 a.m. by the way...Is this surprise visit even a good idea??? Edited November 3, 2011 by jacoby87
Sake3838 Posted November 3, 2011 Posted November 3, 2011 Thats 7:30 a.m. by the way...Is this surprise visit even a good idea??? Depends on how grounded the relationship is.. if she is someone to react badly to a suprise, you might not get the reaction you want. However the gesture is grand, and if you can co operate with her suitemates to let you in and have you suprise her with breakfast in bed or something that would be amazing. She would be so happy you went through all the effort and trouble just to see her smile Iv done this for one of my ex girlfriends back when I was in university, it wasnt an LDR though just fyi, but she loved it, and it was a moment we both couldnt forget and a moment we both wont. So whatever you decide, I hope you get the reaction you want, and I hope she does too. Best of luck to you P.S. make sure you have one of those breakfast trays if you end up doing so, without one is just hectic lol.. and make sure you do have something planned for after this grand gesture, whether if it is just spending time in the room with her or going out for a fun filled day
Author jacoby87 Posted November 3, 2011 Author Posted November 3, 2011 We have been dating for over a year, and she recently pointed out that i havent been able to successfully surprise her yet, so i think she would love the surprise. She will be studying for exams that weekend. I know this, and am fine with doing nothing but giving her back massages and making her food while she studies. I am just not sure how/when to ask her suitemates for help in getting in, and how to surpirse her. Any suggestions???
creighton0123 Posted November 3, 2011 Posted November 3, 2011 Thats 7:30 a.m. by the way...Is this surprise visit even a good idea??? It does depend. If she values organization, structure, and enjoys some personal time, a surprise visit can take her quite by surprise and she can get upset over it. She could also be inconvenienced if she has plans or something important to do. She could also very much enjoy the surprise. It depends on what her personality is like. I, for one, would hate to be surprised by my SO like that.
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