sanjnyc Posted May 20, 2004 Posted May 20, 2004 hey everyone. My girlfriend of 31/2 years broke up with me about 2-3 months ago because she said "she wanted to be selfish and see what else is out there". Shes 22, im 26. Shes only been with me. We spoke here and there and saw each other a couple of times after the break up. The last conversation I had with her was almost a month ago and in that convo she said maybe we could go out to dinner to our restaurant one of these days and I said fine, let me know. I havent spoken to her since. She hasnt called nor have I. Im not really sure what to do cus I still love her but Im trying to hold on to my pride and self-respect. I keep thinking shes with someone else cus she hasnt called in a month. Im trying not to think about her but its hard. I guess I just need some advice from women especially as far as what steps to take if I want her to think about me or wonder about me. I think about calling her but I don't. Thanks.
helpme231 Posted May 20, 2004 Posted May 20, 2004 You should give her a call...just beat around the bush, tell her about how you just really haven't been into that whole dating scene how you have been taking time to work on yourself then ask her about herself. I think that is a pretty slick way to figure out what you want to know....that is if she answers the phone...mine won't.
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