daisydukes Posted November 2, 2011 Posted November 2, 2011 (edited) My boyfriend insists everything is ok after we had some issues but yet he is still giving me the silent treatment. Should I give in and say what's up or should I wait for him?? He is the one who normally texts me and we play poker together online but he hasn't played since he insisted everything is okay but yet he isn't talking to me and he isn't playing poker with me so I am assuming things are not fine and he is just giving me the silent treatment. My question is wait for him to text me or should I text him?? I hate the silent treatment and he is acting like a giant baby over something that I couldn't even help. Edited November 2, 2011 by daisydukes
norajane Posted November 2, 2011 Posted November 2, 2011 He's STILL pouting about that night? I would not text him. Absolutely not. He needs to apologize for being a pouty baby that night, and for being a pouty baby now. If you text and if you keep asking if everything is all right, he's just going to pout longer and the more he's going to think he was right. You'll just be rewarding his dumbass behavior by catering to his tantrum.
Author daisydukes Posted November 2, 2011 Author Posted November 2, 2011 Yes but I keep obsessing thinking maybe because I didn't give him what he wanted he is out having sex with another girl who will and the obsessing is gnawing away at me. I know it shouldn't bother me but this silent treatment is insane. He said everything was fine but yet if it was so fine why is he ignoring me and not doing the usual things we do together like play poker online or send me funny texts and what not. I keep thinking maybe he has found someone else and because I have OCD it really isn't helping the problem very much.
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