Dblock10 Posted November 2, 2011 Posted November 2, 2011 how can i get my ex back. she left the relationship to travel the world, i basically got left behind she put the relationship and graduating uni behind her and is now travelling for another 5 months. the travelling was always her top priority and from what she said at the final break up was that she basically didnt want anything to ruin her time travelling. she claimed we would argue and fall out and she wouldnt want to ruin us for good if it ended whilst she was away. there was no point trying to make it work since she isnt sure of her where abouts once back, therefore it isnt practical to be together. also she didnt want to feel obliged to be in the area i am in once she is back (she even pointed out that she knows that sounds selfish) we have spoke on fb chat twice, both times good conversations. as friends is how i would describe it. and all the times after the main break up it has been me initiating the contact we were together for 7 months. you could basically say she never allowed herself to get fully attatched well at least thats what i felt like i remember deep down just wanting her to really care about me or for her to tell me she loved me, i told her i had fallen for her and she said she really likes me (i had to ask what she feels about me) but yeah its all so complicated and i have regrets
fallenheart Posted November 3, 2011 Posted November 3, 2011 (edited) D-Block....I've given you so much honest advice from the bottom of my heart...I've said everything I could think of to try to help you understand the reality of the situation. But none of it ever gets through. Now I see...I was wrong!! I was totally wrong when I said that she moved on 4 months ago and doesn't like you anymore. That 7 months isn't really that long a time for two college kids to be together and that she was over you a LONG time ago. Now I DO get it...she DOES still love you! But she doesn't want it to be too easy for you...she's waiting for you to come after her!! It's all so clear now....what you need to do is quit school, empty your bank account, steal money if you have to...AND FOLLOW HER!! Follow her around the world until you find where she is....and surprise her!! She's gonna love that! She'll think it's so incredible romantic!! And she'll want to marry you and make babies and live happily ever after!!! DO IT! Edited November 3, 2011 by fallenheart
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