cronos Posted November 1, 2011 Posted November 1, 2011 I should have known...my life experience told me this was the wrong thing to do,there were plenty of hints not to do what I did. I had to go against the grain and do what I want to do....SMH I gave up EVERYTHING for BG. I moved 1100 miles away from my kids, the place I called home, my friends, and my job. Yes and I did it anyway. Not a year passed and I found out it was the BIGGEST mistake I have ever made. We dated in our twenties, it didn't last long because "it was what it was" Years later we reconnected and I didn't learn my lesson from the 1st time around. I thought she changed, but I found out the only thing that changed about her, was her zip code. From one zip code to the other she found the same element of friends to surround herself with. The same loser and two faced people she's known all her life, she seemed to surround herself with them again. I shouldn't surprised, she's two faced herself. All the warning sings were there but I ignored them. BIG mistake. She's a control freak
ChelseaLS Posted November 1, 2011 Posted November 1, 2011 I should have known...my life experience told me this was the wrong thing to do,there were plenty of hints not to do what I did. I had to go against the grain and do what I want to do....SMH I gave up EVERYTHING for BG. I moved 1100 miles away from my kids, the place I called home, my friends, and my job. Yes and I did it anyway. Not a year passed and I found out it was the BIGGEST mistake I have ever made. We dated in our twenties, it didn't last long because "it was what it was" Years later we reconnected and I didn't learn my lesson from the 1st time around. I thought she changed, but I found out the only thing that changed about her, was her zip code. From one zip code to the other she found the same element of friends to surround herself with. The same loser and two faced people she's known all her life, she seemed to surround herself with them again. I shouldn't surprised, she's two faced herself. All the warning sings were there but I ignored them. BIG mistake. She's a control freak My mom kind of did the same thing, but in her late 30's for 11 years. Moved far away from friends and family, gave up her career to follow someone who blatenly lied to her. She is hurt, but she is doing what she can to look at it as a life lesson. She also says now of days, she knew she should have never married him in the first place. Don't beat yourself up about it. Lesson's can be horrible, but thats why they are lessons, we learn from them and carry on.
Author cronos Posted November 4, 2011 Author Posted November 4, 2011 I can't stop think of all the nasty hurtful things she said about me my family and my friends, but why should I be surprised, she talked about her friends the same way. Another warning sign I missed. Now I have to try and put my life back together. She thought by me moving to be with her she could treat me like ****. The 1st week I was there she yelled at me in front of all her friends..(hint) she tried to tell me where I belonged like the dog. She thought that because I was miles away form home and she gave me a place to stay she could treat me like ****. I refused. I spoke to her the way she spoke to me her feelings got hurt. I am so done.
wilsonx Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 The 1st week I was there she yelled at me in front of all her friends..(hint) she tried to tell me where I belonged like the dog. She thought that because I was miles away form home and she gave me a place to stay she could treat me like ****. I refused. I spoke to her the way she spoke to me her feelings got hurt. I am so done. 2nd time hurts worse then the first doesnt it. Its a life lesson that you learned and you probably should have learned it the first time Im going to teach you another lesson you should have learned the first time, if a dog barks at me like that, you put that bitch down in front of her friends. You stand up for yourself and then you walk away. One of my good friends today told me Im an ******* but I treated my ex well. My biggest mistake was the same thing that happened to you, I let her disrespect me and did nothing about it
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