Woggle Posted November 1, 2011 Posted November 1, 2011 I was reading the message boards at Daily Mail and I happened upon this thread about cheating where one person was blatantly justifying it. What are your thoughts? http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/chat/r/t-10238268/index.html?threadIndex=1
AHardDaysNight Posted November 1, 2011 Posted November 1, 2011 I think you're grabbing for another reason to be bitter, Woggle.
Author Woggle Posted November 1, 2011 Author Posted November 1, 2011 I think you're grabbing for another reason to be bitter, Woggle. I just happened to come across it. I also notice how the proud cheater is against porn as well. I swear there is a manual somewhere.
dasein Posted November 1, 2011 Posted November 1, 2011 Sorry, couldn't wade through all the gobbledygook in that thread to get to anything resembling an adult discussion grounded in rational thought.
TaraMaiden Posted November 1, 2011 Posted November 1, 2011 People are people wherever you go... My question would be, "Why be in a L/T relationship with someone if you can't be faithful to them?" The whole point of a serious relationship is commitment. As one person in that thread pointed out, I have no objection to open relationships, at all, if both members are openly happy about it, and can deal with it. I have no objection to someone having multiple sexual partners, providing again, they enjoy such activities healthily and honestly. But it just seems bizarre to be in a relationship, where you deliberately cheat and don't reveal your infidelity to your SO. I mean - what's the point?
soserious1 Posted November 1, 2011 Posted November 1, 2011 I was reading the message boards at Daily Mail and I happened upon this thread about cheating where one person was blatantly justifying it. What are your thoughts? http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/chat/r/t-10238268/index.html?threadIndex=1 What I'm wondering is why you didn't notice all the women telling her they disagreed with her choices and that they had never/would never cheat? Btw, we have plenty of women here on these forums who try to justify their infidelity but we also have plenty of men who do the same.
Pyro Posted November 2, 2011 Posted November 2, 2011 I think you're grabbing for another reason to be bitter, Woggle. You think? The only person that I know of who purposely searches for evidence to back up his fears. What I'm wondering is why you didn't notice all the women telling her they disagreed with her choices and that they had never/would never cheat? Btw, we have plenty of women here on these forums who try to justify their infidelity but we also have plenty of men who do the same. He only sees what proves his own points.
lino Posted November 2, 2011 Posted November 2, 2011 You really need to stop reading garbage like that. What purpose does it serve for you? You'll never get better if you keep reading that crap.
Untouchable_Fire Posted November 2, 2011 Posted November 2, 2011 What I'm wondering is why you didn't notice all the women telling her they disagreed with her choices and that they had never/would never cheat? Btw, we have plenty of women here on these forums who try to justify their infidelity but we also have plenty of men who do the same. I think I can answer that because my issues have been somewhat similar to Wog. My xGF consistently derided cheaters and openly talked about how she would never do that.... however when provided the opportunity she did cheat and with gusto. I've been around enough to know that people say all kinds of things that they quickly abandon when the situation suits them.
johan Posted November 2, 2011 Posted November 2, 2011 What I'm wondering is why you didn't notice all the women telling her they disagreed with her choices and that they had never/would never cheat? They aren't the threat. That's why. It isn't that he didn't see those posts. It's just that those aren't the bothersome ones. Not to mention you can't overlook the fact that every cheating woman at one time or another swore she would never cheat. So all those naysayers have it in them as well, even while they are criticizing the one admitting to it right now. And one cheating woman in the world is one too many anyway, because if any exist at all then you can't be 1000% sure your own wife won't turn out to be one of them someday.
Trovador Posted November 2, 2011 Posted November 2, 2011 I think it must sux to be Mrs. Woggle, if there is one...
oaks Posted November 2, 2011 Posted November 2, 2011 I was reading the message boards at Daily Mail and I happened upon this thread about cheating where one person was blatantly justifying it. What are your thoughts? You're not tricking me in to reading the Daily Mail that easily.
anne1707 Posted November 2, 2011 Posted November 2, 2011 You're not tricking me in to reading the Daily Mail that easily. Exactly. I wouldn't even wipe...... Woggle - it's a trashy, offensive, ill-informed tabloid paper. Nobody with any vague level of intelligence takes it seriously.
Jynxx Posted November 2, 2011 Posted November 2, 2011 What are your thoughts? Too much time spent on relationship forums can't be good for your mental health. Cut back on it, limit yourself to 30 min per day and I bet you'll be less bitter in 2 months.
Emilia Posted November 2, 2011 Posted November 2, 2011 What are your thoughts? There is a reason why the Daily Mail is called the Daily Fascist in the UK
serial muse Posted November 2, 2011 Posted November 2, 2011 There is a reason why the Daily Mail is called the Daily Fascist in the UK as well as the Daily Fail.
oaks Posted November 2, 2011 Posted November 2, 2011 Or the Daily Hate-Mail. Maybe that's just the Letters page; I don't know.
Author Woggle Posted November 3, 2011 Author Posted November 3, 2011 Maybe you are right but here is another article. And people wonder why I can't get past my trust issues with women. http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/sex/why-i-cheated-on-my-husband-2596381/;_ylt=As7JOYEZo_iCOFTR.e586OxhbqU5
Pyro Posted November 3, 2011 Posted November 3, 2011 Its almost 2AM....go to bed. How does your wife tolerate you not being in bed with her?
Author Woggle Posted November 3, 2011 Author Posted November 3, 2011 Also Pyro as a man this doesn't make you feel anything? You don't get the slightest bit of anxiety about your own marriage? Your ex cheated on you and it seems that you still can't relate to the male point of view even though you are a man.
Pyro Posted November 3, 2011 Posted November 3, 2011 You probably wouldn't if you would stop purposely searching nonstop for BS that backs up your fears. Seems like you are more concerned with proving your points correctly to everyone rather than fixing yourself. If you were truly interested in that you would stop posting those ridiculous links.
Pyro Posted November 3, 2011 Posted November 3, 2011 Also Pyro as a man this doesn't make you feel anything? You don't get the slightest bit of anxiety about your own marriage? Your ex cheated on you and it seems that you still can't relate to the male point of view even though you are a man. No. I could sit here, just like you and worry about being cheated on but that would waste my time and my time is precious and I prefer to spend it on stuff that I enjoy. Yes, my ex (ONE WOMAN OUT OF MILLIONS!!!!!!!!) cheated on me. That helped me realize what red flags to look out for, but unlike you I can still be alert of those red flags and enjoy my marriage at the same time.
Pyro Posted November 3, 2011 Posted November 3, 2011 Learn from being cheated on. It helps you open your eyes but the healthy thing to do is to enjoy life with an open mind while still keeping your eyes open. That is something you are unable to accomplish at this point.
thatone Posted November 3, 2011 Posted November 3, 2011 You think? The only person that I know of who purposely searches for evidence to back up his fears. you haven't run across many fox news watchers
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