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An ex girlfriend from a long time ago has gotten in touch a couple of times recently. Nothing flirty, nothing saying she wants me back, but it has actually been amazing reconnecting with her.

 

The break up was bad, really bad, and I pushed her away something terible afterward (she broke up with me).

 

We both moved on since - she has a long term partner, and Ive been in and out of relationships since. Basically, I dont want her back, but am really happy shes gotten in touch.

 

Stuff from the past is all forgiven. She told a friend that shed really like to see me. I guess its really strange - I miss her a lot, not as a girlfriend but as a friend - she did a lot for me, and once i had moved on I realized that she hadnt done all that wrong.

 

Would a friendship be possible? It was a really intense relationship, an awful lot of feelings and hurt happened in the time we were together. Or is it best to leave it in the past. I should re-emphasize I dont want her back, but her getting in touch has really surprised me, and also intrigued me into wanting to see her again.

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Up to you dude. I have a friend who is very good friends with his ex (who is now married to someone else). If you both don't have feelings for each other then it could work.

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