oaks Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 But chances are she will forget to get back with me. So I guess by thur if she doesn't then get ahold of her then? If she's really interested in you then she'll be thinking about you and how to fit a date in to her busy schedule, and she'll call. So it stands to reason that if she doesn't call then it isn't because she forgot, but that she isn't interested. I think Thursday is a good amount of time to wait... but if she doesn't call then I think you should take that as a clear sign that she isn't interested and then you should move on. Sometimes you worry about things being awkward in class if you get rejected... Well, if you call her again on thursday when she's "forgotten" to get back to you and then she has to explain that she doesn't really want to date you that sounds like it could be awkward. So don't do that.
Author one goal Posted November 6, 2011 Author Posted November 6, 2011 If she's really interested in you then she'll be thinking about you and how to fit a date in to her busy schedule, and she'll call. So it stands to reason that if she doesn't call then it isn't because she forgot, but that she isn't interested. I think Thursday is a good amount of time to wait... but if she doesn't call then I think you should take that as a clear sign that she isn't interested and then you should move on. Sometimes you worry about things being awkward in class if you get rejected... Well, if you call her again on thursday when she's "forgotten" to get back to you and then she has to explain that she doesn't really want to date you that sounds like it could be awkward. So don't do that. But it hurts my feelings though when these girls ignore me. It always happens.
oaks Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 You need to get over it. You haven't asked out many women, so you really have nothing to complain about.
Cracker Jack Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 If you're tired of running into the same problem, one goal, it means you need to make some changes. For one, stop getting so attached to women you hardly know, and telling them your feelings just because they're "hot and nice" to you. It likely turns them off and makes them want to leave you alone. You gotta start changing your approach, or continue to have the same problems with women for yrs to come.
Febreze Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 So I tried calling her but she didn't pickup but texted her later because she was in class she said. I just asked if we can meetup soon and take her out to dinner one night. She works on weekends and also has papers this weekend. Anyways she said she would get ahold of me next week and she said we can eat at the school and have fun there. I told her I'd rather take her somewhere nicer but she insisted dinner at school and said that's okay. My friend told me that she's likely being cautious and setting boundaries with me in order to go slow and see how I am. He recently got out of a relationship and that's the vibe he's getting From this. So what you think? I was shocked she didn't say no But he thinks she wants to go slow hence setting up boundaries. Do you agree she can tell I like her? Should I go to dinner at school still? I'm worried she will bring friends along when it's supposed to be a date!!! To get to know her. Should I pay for her meal? If I do go eat dinner with her, does that mean little chance I get to makeout or anything then since we will be at school? Hi I dont think u should be trying to make out with anyone u dont really know because that'll never work. Question: have u ever had a gf before??
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