Imajerk17 Posted November 5, 2011 Posted November 5, 2011 Well when he murders someone, we wont feel bad now will we Jerk? I know I won't. We won't be the ones responsible Shannon, that's for sure. People who keep responding to this guy are only feeding his obsession. Which is creating a dangerous situation for the poor girl. It really bothers me that only you and I and a few others see this, and the rest do not.
Author one goal Posted November 5, 2011 Author Posted November 5, 2011 Why are people calling me obsessed all because I like a girl?
oaks Posted November 5, 2011 Posted November 5, 2011 Why are people calling me obsessed all because I like a girl? Well, you do seem to have trouble letting go and moving on once it's clear that someone isn't interested in you. (Or perhaps it isn't clear to you when someone isn't interested - I'm not sure.) Either way, this is something you could improve on.
Author one goal Posted November 5, 2011 Author Posted November 5, 2011 Well, you do seem to have trouble letting go and moving on once it's clear that someone isn't interested in you. (Or perhaps it isn't clear to you when someone isn't interested - I'm not sure.) Either way, this is something you could improve on. Why are they never interested in me for?
ShannonMI Posted November 5, 2011 Posted November 5, 2011 When the girls are obviously not interested, YOU MOVE ON!!! You don't persist to the point of stalking. That's what normal men do when they are rejected by women. They move the f*ck on. They don't think of other ways to get the girl or what other things to say to get the girl, THEY MOVE ON!!! Let me make sure this is clear.....MOVE ON!!!!!!!!!!:rolleyes:
ShannonMI Posted November 5, 2011 Posted November 5, 2011 Why are they never interested in me for? Ummmmm because you give off a creeper vibe perhaps?
Author one goal Posted November 5, 2011 Author Posted November 5, 2011 Ummmmm because you give off a creeper vibe perhaps? What is the creepy vibe I give off?
oaks Posted November 5, 2011 Posted November 5, 2011 Why are they never interested in me for? Firstly I don't think you're talking about many women (you only seem to go for the 'hotties', who are few in number), and secondly: what do you have to offer?
dispatch3d Posted November 5, 2011 Posted November 5, 2011 Rather than man up and ask a girl out, you essentially stalk the crap out of them. I'd say I act a little too much like you sometimes. In fact, I'd even say reading your threads has taught me a lot about what not to do.
Author one goal Posted November 5, 2011 Author Posted November 5, 2011 Rather than man up and ask a girl out, you essentially stalk the crap out of them. I'd say I act a little too much like you sometimes. In fact, I'd even say reading your threads has taught me a lot about what not to do. Because when I do ask them out I always get rejected!
oaks Posted November 5, 2011 Posted November 5, 2011 Because when I do ask them out I always get rejected! So of all the girls you've asked out this year (4 of them, including this one, I think) what qualities did you hope they would find attractive? What do you have to offer? Out of a sample of 4 women, how many do you think are likely to be attracted to you? When you've asked out hundreds of women and they all reject you, then you can complain that you always get rejected, but at least then you should have learned about moving on when they say 'no'. You don't ask out enough women to have any credible reason to complain about 'always' getting rejected.
LexiB Posted November 5, 2011 Posted November 5, 2011 Rather than man up and ask a girl out, you essentially stalk the crap out of them. Because when I do ask them out I always get rejected! So you're admitting that you DO in fact stalk these women with your behavior?
Author one goal Posted November 6, 2011 Author Posted November 6, 2011 So she posted a like to one of her facebook pics tonight. So all I said was "You look adorable" because she was all dressed up with her friend. anyways a few minutes later she deleted my comment. i didnt say you're hot, You look pretty. That is all I said. What is she trying to tell me? Other friends always post sht like that when she post pics.
Cracker Jack Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 She doesn't want you commenting on her pics. Keep it up, and you'll eventually find yourself deleted.
Author one goal Posted November 6, 2011 Author Posted November 6, 2011 She doesn't want you commenting on her pics. Keep it up, and you'll eventually find yourself deleted. Ive commented on her pics, post all the time, and she comments on my stuff and Likes. She just like I post I made a few minutes ago.
jerbear Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 Her actions mean you are in the friend zone. Your prior comments on her FB page may have been a good sign but they are history. Going forward she does not appreciate you trying to get out of the friend zone. The "your adorable" is too familiar. You might as well quit while you are ahead.
Author one goal Posted November 6, 2011 Author Posted November 6, 2011 Her actions mean you are in the friend zone. Your prior comments on her FB page may have been a good sign but they are history. Going forward she does not appreciate you trying to get out of the friend zone. The "your adorable" is too familiar. You might as well quit while you are ahead. She has a ton of guy friends, but doesn't date any of them.
Cracker Jack Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 Ive commented on her pics, post all the time, and she comments on my stuff and Likes. She just like I post I made a few minutes ago. Maybe she deleted it by accident, then. Comment on another one of her photos and see if she deletes it.
Author one goal Posted November 6, 2011 Author Posted November 6, 2011 Maybe she deleted it by accident, then. Comment on another one of her photos and see if she deletes it. Not right now. If she did delete on purpose then she will be mad.
jerbear Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 She has a ton of guy friends, but doesn't date any of them. Ah, so pick a number and wait. With all those guy friends, she has choices.
dispatch3d Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 Yeah, I figured you were the type to comment on everything they do on facebook. that's why if I like a girl now I delete them from my news feed and avoid commenting on anything they do haha.
Author one goal Posted November 6, 2011 Author Posted November 6, 2011 Should I tell her how I honestly feel about her? What would she think if I told her my feelings about her?
oaks Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 Should I tell her how I honestly feel about her? What would she think if I told her my feelings about her? No. She will think it's "too much, too soon" at best and "this guy is a creep" at worst. You shouldn't have feelings for her, yet, anyway - you haven't even been on a date. Nothing wrong with finding her attractive, but gushing praise too soon generally doesn't go down well with women. She said she'll get back to you... so you shouldn't really be contacting her at all at the moment. Find something else to keep you occupied for a few days... a hobby, computer games, laundry, whatever.
Author one goal Posted November 6, 2011 Author Posted November 6, 2011 No. She will think it's "too much, too soon" at best and "this guy is a creep" at worst. You shouldn't have feelings for her, yet, anyway - you haven't even been on a date. Nothing wrong with finding her attractive, but gushing praise too soon generally doesn't go down well with women. She said she'll get back to you... so you shouldn't really be contacting her at all at the moment. Find something else to keep you occupied for a few days... a hobby, computer games, laundry, whatever. But chances are she will forget to get back with me. So I guess by thur if she doesn't then get ahold of her then?
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