sBASScadet Posted November 1, 2011 Posted November 1, 2011 his might be a little graphic, sorry. I have a question about this girl I like back home in washington state; (I'm at school for music in Hollywood). I am 25 and she is 25 as well. This girl I like is actually one of my buddies ex's and I'v known her for a few years. When I went home for break about a month ago, we were hanging out a lot and I stayed over at her house like 4 times, no sex, but went out to some bars and got a little drunk a few times. But each time I stayed over(in her bed) we cuddled more and were making out more, and I ended up almost having sex with her; but she apperantly has some kind of a born again virgin church-thing, that I really don't think is going to matter because when I got back she texted me about how much she regrets not messing around with me and how hot for me she was. At first she was hitting me up like crazy when I got back and I even got her to send me some very sexy pictures that were pretty much nude; and she had me send her a couple basically nude pics which she said she really liked. She said I was a good kisser and liked how I took control when things started getting intimate at her place. Then we were talking back and forth (at the beggening of the quarter the first week back) about how she missed me and the things she wanted me to do to her, how she thought I was probley good in bed, how she wanted to shower with me, how she hopes "I can breath through my ears ;)" next time I see her, how she thought about me when she 'took care of herself', and how wet she was, ect. We halfway made plans to have her fly down for thanksgiving and she was going to stay with me and we were going to "really have some fun", and also go to some different places and how she was going to jump into my arms at the airport. I'm not very good with girls but sometimes I can pull em in, and I tried to keep things hot until she got here. Things cooled off a bit, and I'm not always sure what to say over text messaging. Then I talked to my buddy that went out with her for a couple years-(I know, this is a pretty if-y situation, but I had talked him and he ok'd it)- and he said she was blowin his phone up for at least a couple days, but he wasn't interested. I gave her a break for about 2 weeks because I felt like she didn't wanted to talk to me for some reason, so I gave her space. She had also told me how she will run if she thinks a guy is being needy or clingy casually early in the break from school. So I definatly don't want to be THAT guy! We've been texting a bit lately but she doesn't have the same vigor as she used to -possibly due to me, i don't know. I don't know if I should just let things be or not, I DO want to be proactive though! I still want her to come for thanksgiving. I do like her romantically and as a person, and definatly want go as far as I can with her. I don't really know who to talk to. This could be a good learning experience and I think if I do this right it will work the way I want. We had a really good time together while I was on break, and a really felt like a man working to get her and being with her, almost like a couple. (that probley sounds a bit strange) [How do I get her warmed up again the way I did back home, get her texting me and giving me feedback(maybe some more picture too), and get her to come down here on thanksgiving?? How do I be a man like she wants and and do what ever needs to be done to keep her hot? How do I communicate with her without being clingy, desperate, or insecure, and get results?] I'm sure this all sounds a little strange but I'm doin the best I can here. Any advice would be VERY MUCH appreciated!
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