lostlandscaper Posted November 1, 2011 Posted November 1, 2011 Hi. I posted here about a month ago talking about my break up with my ex. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t300269/?highlight=keeping+promises After one month of NC she text me angry telling me I had no idea how bad I hurt her and how bad i messed her up this and that... I ended up calling her and we spoke for like 3 hours and everything went pretty well and we agreed to meet up and talk (my suggestion) We met at a local bar and chatted for a few hours and everything went great! chatted kept it casual and agreed to meet again. We ended up going to dinner and to a haunted house. while at the haunted house she was hanging all over me and relationship stuff it was great. On the way home I asked if she wanted to hang at her place for a little bit. she got cold and said no and went to a party with her brother. continued small talk over the phone for a few days. tried to bring up stuff about "us" and she would get real cold and short and always had the same reply of "I dont know". more small talk over the phone and i ended up hanging out with her one evening at her house. It was great hugging kissing cuddling. still though if I asked anything about us she got distant.. hung out the following two evenings much the same. had a great time hugging cuddling holding hands kissing (no sex). on the last evening I even spent the night. (still no sex). Then it got weird. real distant and non communicable. She told me she would text me on saturday night and tell me about her halloween party. Well that never happened. All of this communication except for the initial text had been initiated by me. And I havent talked to her since... It seems like im only good enough to hang out with when she has nothing else to do. like on the weekends I dont exist. Am I being played?
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