lolcatz Posted October 31, 2011 Posted October 31, 2011 My ex girlfriend broke up with me a couple weeks ago due to stress levels from 1st year collegeism. Did the NC rule for that long. I went to visit some friends at school for halloween weekend to party. I met up with a few friends, which one of them are her good friends. Anyway, my ex text me if was at the school and I responded with greatest ability under the influence (lol). Very brief. And I told her that I was with her friend and others. However she pulled the "I'm with (her ex boyfriend)." She was. I wasn't phased by it at all. So I told her bye I am too incoherent to talk. The next day, I received a text from her saying this, "seriously **** you" I was caught off guard. I responded back. And her reason for saying that was because she convinced that I intentionally hung out with her friend to make her mad. I didn't at all. So she tells me that I shouldn't hang out with her good friends. I told her that I am single and I have every right to hang out with anyone I want. I am going through the I am over it phase, which is ironic because she text me that night maybe for conversation? Anyway, do you think she still cares about me? I am confused as to why she would get pissed over something so stupid. Thanks
joseph17 Posted October 31, 2011 Posted October 31, 2011 She probably feels like you are trying to keep tabs on her or something. Even though this was not your intentions this is apparently how she took it. She probably does still have feelings for you but does not want to hurt you by knowing what she is doing. I feel you though on you being able to talk to anyone you choose. They are still your friends regardless so shes is just going to have to get over it.
perfectlyflawed459 Posted October 31, 2011 Posted October 31, 2011 Honestly she sounds a bit jealous in my opinion. I remember my ex was getting a little pissy because all his friends still talked to me and some even tried pursuing me. He would act like he didn't care, then I would hear from a mutual friend that when I would walk away he would start talking crap about me and whichever friend I was with. Then later he ended up telling me his missed me and all that stuff. I never understood why ex's cared so much. They broke up with you, they ended it, but when they see you moving on, they get all pissy. What the heck haha. You aren't together anymore, it shouldn't matter who you hang out with. If her friends are your friends too then you have every right to hang out with them just like you said. I wouldn't recommend confronting her on her jealousy because she will just deny it. Just ignore her, you don't deserve that from her. If you ignore her, I bet it will tear at her on the inside.
Author lolcatz Posted October 31, 2011 Author Posted October 31, 2011 Thanks! I just sent her one text telling her that good friends or not, she had no right to tell me to **** off. I am single and I can do anything I want. Same goes for you. And then she responded "Not with my friends." And I just left it there. I am hoping that me not texting her back is going to tear her apart. It's not worth fighting for. It just confuses me that she wanted to break up because of her stress and I believe that a huge factor are her new friends at her school. When she kissed a guy when she drunk while we were dating, I was raging. Ever since then, I believe her friends are influencing her to end it with me. I still care for her and all, but it is gradually going away. After all the I miss you's, I love you's, I am happy to be with you's from her 2 days prior to our break up means nothing I guess. Life is a long road and there are plenty of girls out there who I deserve. If she cannot keep a relationship from her friends pressuring her and school, then she does not deserve me.
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