AliceInChains86 Posted October 31, 2011 Posted October 31, 2011 Hello everyone, I will try and keep this as short as possible, but will appricate any advice I broke up with an ex of 9 months, in August. We only moved out in July and as soon as i ran out of savings... He dumped me, during my mums 5hour operation. I guess i was an idiot but i really did not see it coming, I managed to get back my £1300 i spent on flat deposits and all back off him, but unfortunatly hes somewhat refusing to take me of the 12months tenancy agreement still no matter what i say or do, dispite him knowing i sleep on the floor and really need a place to live. I later found out as soon as we got together he went back to both of his ex's and slept with them. He also did loads of crap behind my back and was only really using me for a place to live and also spent all the money we got on fags and alcohol and what not. His ex got in contact with me after the break up and told me everything. How she didnt know he was with me when he went back to her. How he promised her and her 3 kids to love them forever and just never went back... He moved in with her and her kids and was like a father to them. Got engaged to her and then left her and ran after me. Before her... he got his then gf to use her inheritance to buy a flat for him and her, she did this... a week before they was gonna marry he ran off and refused to take his name of the flat. Gf before that fell pregnant with his child, he refused to have any part of it and forced her to abort, she decided she couldnt cope and tried to take her own life instead and ended up loosing the child.... This goes on and on and on... I also found out stuff about him that worries me a lot... How frighten his ex is of him coming near her kids... Hes a very agressive guy and i think hes still secretly doing a lot of cocain. Now i have found out that hes seing another woman with a child... Do i say something? Im not sure what im supposed to do Any advice would be very helpful. Thank you
AlisaMarie Posted October 31, 2011 Posted October 31, 2011 I don't even know what to say... this person sounds like a monster! I would just be thankful that ties are cut with the two of you and do your best to move on. Pray for the new girl and her child... there's really nothing you can do. If you try to involve yourself by "warning" her... you are going to end up looking like the crazy one that just wants him back.
Author AliceInChains86 Posted October 31, 2011 Author Posted October 31, 2011 Unfortunatly all ties arnt cut we still technically rent a flat together! And my brothers the guarantor. I have a feeling the only reason he isnt taking me off the contract is incase he one day blows all his rent money on drugs and booze or like always getting 17yr old girls drunk and trying to sleep with them (hes 32) he will make me pay for it cause he knows i dont want my brother to be held liable The last thing i want is to have him back!
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