musicSaves12 Posted October 31, 2011 Posted October 31, 2011 Alright well last time I posted about this situation was probably not the best time to write down my feelings and what happen using my phone late at night. Anyway, after 4 weeks of NC my ex drunk texted me the other night. The first text was just asking "whats up?" I waited about 10 minutes or so and responded just saying "out with friends" I did ask her if everything "whats up is everything cool" (not sure if that was good idea). After I sent that simple text she sent me three text saying she loves me, misses me and that her life sucks without me pretty much repeating each of those lines in three text. She asked about a concert and if I was going. All I text was why whats up and I think so. I swear I did not text anything else about how I missed her too or anything of that nature. That was the end of the conversation I did go and try and meet up with her. Especially since we were both out drinking. However, the next night she sent a text saying "sorry about last night drunk texting" more or less. I did not respond and I deleted the text thread. So even though I don't feel exactly like I did on day one I am a little sad and frustrated she sent me any texts at all. Ok, so yeah I would like to get her back but I am doing everything I can to move on and not letting thoughts of her get in the way of my own life. Does her texting me first (drunk or not) mean anything. I think I did the right thing in not saying anything about missing her and not responding to her apology. I don't think I should ask her to meet up somewhere like I was thinking after the first texts. If I do see her at the concert I guess I'll let her make the first move, I don't know. I'm going to try and ignore her. Thanks! This forum is so nice to know about.
MIK1000 Posted October 31, 2011 Posted October 31, 2011 Alright well last time I posted about this situation was probably not the best time to write down my feelings and what happen using my phone late at night. Anyway, after 4 weeks of NC my ex drunk texted me the other night. The first text was just asking "whats up?" I waited about 10 minutes or so and responded just saying "out with friends" I did ask her if everything "whats up is everything cool" (not sure if that was good idea). After I sent that simple text she sent me three text saying she loves me, misses me and that her life sucks without me pretty much repeating each of those lines in three text. She asked about a concert and if I was going. All I text was why whats up and I think so. I swear I did not text anything else about how I missed her too or anything of that nature. That was the end of the conversation I did go and try and meet up with her. Especially since we were both out drinking. However, the next night she sent a text saying "sorry about last night drunk texting" more or less. I did not respond and I deleted the text thread. So even though I don't feel exactly like I did on day one I am a little sad and frustrated she sent me any texts at all. Ok, so yeah I would like to get her back but I am doing everything I can to move on and not letting thoughts of her get in the way of my own life. Does her texting me first (drunk or not) mean anything. I think I did the right thing in not saying anything about missing her and not responding to her apology. I don't think I should ask her to meet up somewhere like I was thinking after the first texts. If I do see her at the concert I guess I'll let her make the first move, I don't know. I'm going to try and ignore her. Thanks! This forum is so nice to know about. It sounds like she wants u back, but i suppose you need to be careful. Has she broken up with her new guy?
M2155 Posted October 31, 2011 Posted October 31, 2011 She came back and told you she "drunk texted" you. That's equal to "I take back what I said." I don't doubt that she means it, but neither of you are ready to take the next step. Keep up the NC and see if she makes real effort.
Author musicSaves12 Posted October 31, 2011 Author Posted October 31, 2011 Thanks! I will definitely keep up with the NC. I am not sure what's going with the new guy. I wasn't going to go that far in trying to talk to her. I've got other women I'm trying to chase right now no time to think about who she is or not with. I do feel good knowing that she texted me twice once I started the whole NC.
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