ImThinkingWTF Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 (edited) Ive been seeing this guy for two months...made it official last week. He worked until 5 yesterday, and had to go to work at 7 this morning. He said he wasnt going to go out last night. I did anyway. Last night at 10 I sent him a message to see what he was up to and he texts back with a "where are you" I didnt get the text until 11 because he texted me back 30 min later and I was in a loud bar. I responded with the area I was but not the specific bar I was at and asked if he was out. He made a comment earlier about maybe coming out so I thought he was asking so that he could meet up with us. He didnt answer me about if he was out but instead asked me again where I was. I respond with the bar, he doesnt return my text, and doesnt text back until 130 again with a where are you. I tell him I am going home, if he wanted to see me he would have made an effort and that im not going to play games. at this point I was annoyed because he asked me 3 or 4 times where i was and would not answer my question of if he was even out or not. He texts back with a you know i want you but do your thing. I said, Im at home, like i said...i thought you werent going out. He then called me, he said he didnt go out and asked me yet again where i went, I told him and and seemed to get a little upset about it and told me that we needed to have a talk about that and then wanted to talk to my friend that went out with me. He proceeded to tell her that when me and her go out she better not let anything bad happen to me, that he understands i need space to go out alone but that he really likes me and he doesnt want anything to happen to me. (i dont really know if he means me hooking up with someone or me getting hurt or both). Then he gets back on the phone with me, and says he wants to come spend the night with me, he has to get some clothes for work and then he will come over. at 3 am I text him and ask if hes still coming, I get no response. at 3 pm i still havent heard from him so i text him again and say i missed you last night. are you upset with me for some reason? and he still has not responded. Im really baffled by his behavior. why is he acting like this? im not going to contact him again until he contacts me... any insight on why he would act like that?? Edited October 30, 2011 by ImThinkingWTF
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