majomparade Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 Been wondering this for a while as its something I have battled with in the past and perhaps I need some advice/opinions of others. On one occaision I sent roses with what I thought was a nice card and that didnt have the desired effect, in fact I just got totally ignored, so I moved on knowing that my chances werent good there. Did I go overboard with that one or was it just one of those things that some people just dont feel the same way? I then tried with a different girl to ask her out and I told her I liked her, in front of a crowd of people, she politely declined in front of said crowd( you can imagine how that felt). Any advice for dating challenged people like me(no I am not really looking but doing some research for when I do find someone again
YaOldBuckaroo Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 Hey majomparade, Looks like you're being too straightforward with the girls. Telling them you like them during the early stages of dating is usually a big no-no. It's always better to do things, speak and behave in such a way that'll get the girl attracted to you. Once you know this, and she knows that you like her too, not saying it right away could be the wiser move. Girls like guys that keep them guessing, know what I mean? Also, found this article for you: http://www.wikihow.com/Tell-a-Girl-You-Like-Her Cheers Max
Eddie Edirol Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 You dont tell them you like them, you make them like you by bieng fun, interesting, charismatic, and confident. You dont give roses to a woman you havent kissed yet, and even then you need to find out if she LIKES roses. If you give them anything, it has to be something you already know they will like, so you have to find out ahead of time. Pay attention, they will give you plenty of hints. If you havent noticed already, this means you make sure you know she likes you first. She will tell you that too. So if you are talking to her in front of a crowd of people, you have to learn to read her cues to see if she is actually into tyou or not. if you dont know those cues, you need to google it.
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