bope123 Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 So I met this girl probably a year ago, she had a boyfriend. We didn't really start talking until she broke up with him around april, and mean just talking when we saw each other and stuff we were dating at all very friendly talk. Over the summer we started talking alot more and it seemed like we were both interested but we didn't really have the time to start anything. So around september we really started talking 5 or 6 times a week (texting) saw each other most b/c we work in the same place and we'd talk alot. Finally we start hanging out, went to lunch a couple of times and then out to dinner. After dinner it seemed like she wanted a relationship. I liked her so we started hanging out we are both very busy so for the most part I would just go over after i got off work and we'd hang out most nights. Now to more recent times, she goes home for the weekend. We talk everyday and then the night before she gets back out of nowhere she texts me and says "you know what i'm really excited to come back for the first time in a long time" (she doesnt like it here and goes away almost every other weekend). She says it's because shes really excited to see me. Mon and tues go amazingly, it really seemed like we went from dating to a real relationship. Tues night we made out all night on the couch she couldn't keep her hands off of me. I had to get up early so I had to leave went home at like 2 am, she txts me when I get home how amazing the night was and how much she wishes i was still there. I knew I wasn't going to see her wed because she was going to a concert with her friend, but just the txting back and forth that day didn't seem right. Then thursday the same thing txting made me feel like something was wrong, I go over thurs night and it was just not the same. I was actually uncomfortable for the first time with her ever. Her roomate was there so we couldn't really talk but I txted her when I got home and said "was something wrong... everything just felt different tonight?". She didn't answer me until the morning, when she says "different how?" I said "it just felt uncomfortable for the first time", then about an hour later of me waiting I say "come on tell me what was wrong", she comes back with "i dunno the past couple of days it just seems like you want more than i can give you. i'm not ready for a relationship I dove into with my last boyfriend right after the boyfriend before him and i'm not ready to do that again. I really like you and have alot of fun with you but i don't want to start something now and ended hurting you b/c i'm not ready." I basically said ok, i hope you change your mind and we haven't talked since early friday morning. What the hell happened? She was the one that seemed like she was pushing the relationship early on than when she got me to fall for her, she backed off. Any help?
Author bope123 Posted October 31, 2011 Author Posted October 31, 2011 bump any ideas at all? I'm just blown away by what went on here but I don't wanna talk to her about it.
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