carebear87 Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 So my friend recommended that I post on this forum...here's my deal. I'm 27, she's 24. I dated this girl beginning in June 2010. She was totally in to me, and to be honest it was too easy. She became clingy and it kind of pushed me away. I never fully committed to her, because I knew I was going to move across the state in September 2010. She took this really hard; went no contact on me for a few times here and there. This hurt me, but I didn't think a LDR would work. So I come back and see her over Christmas and in March 2011. My respect for her grew, and I actually started to become more attached to her. We talked on the phone all the time, and I sensed that my feelings for her grew. When the school year ended (she's a teacher), she went on this trip with a 55 yo coach she worked with. Now this girl is petite, and by all accounts good looking - solid 8. This old man, who she described as a "father figure," is extremely fat, and just plain ugly. I never felt the least bit threatened by him. When she came back from the trip, in mid-June, I, for the first time, expressed my feelings for her. She went cold. She told me that the old man told her that he would marry her and really came onto her over the trip, but that nothing physical happened at all. I still believe her, mostly because the old man has no money, is fat, and ugly - she's only been with attractive guys, around her age, in the past. But a couple of weeks later, when I came home to see her, she told me her feelings had faded. She swears that no other guy is in the picture. I went no contact, but am planning on moving back to her area. I really don't know what the hell happened. She always seemed to be honest with me. Maybe she screwed the old man, but that is extremely difficult for me to believe, but who knows. I guess feelings can just fade, particularly with the distance. Could she have just developed an extreme emotional connection with the "father-figure" that could have altered her feelings for me? Ladies, is this possible? Or did she definitely screw him? Again, this girl is really cute. Petite, perfect teeth, nice hair, etc. This old man is fat, ugly, has no money (teacher/coach) etc...is it possible? What is likely?
Author carebear87 Posted October 30, 2011 Author Posted October 30, 2011 Yeah, I could stomach it - and knowing such would definitely help me move on. I wish she had just gone on the trip with some eligible bachelor; then I could just assume and move on. This case is just weird and mind****ed me.
Author carebear87 Posted October 30, 2011 Author Posted October 30, 2011 I know that she would never admit to it. If it happened, it's in a vault that no one is getting to. I guess I just wondered if it is even possible for a woman to have a relationship and deep emotional connection with a "father-figure."
SincereOnlineGuy Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 What is likely? Tell us about her father, and we'll tell you...
Feelin Frisky Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 ...imagine her head bobbin up and down between his fat sweaty legs satisfying him, he could of just had his way with her all night with his dominant demeanor having her play out his most ridiculous fetishes fueled by alcohol and viagra... Hahahahahahahaha. OMFG, that's cold. OP, love is blind. Ya never know but it seems you've been dispensed with.
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