MashedPotatoes Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 Just to be clear, I do plan on asking this girl out the next time I see her. I'm asking "does she want me to ask her out?" so I can gain some clarity on how she sees me thus making it a little bit easier on my part. Now, I'm not a shy guy by any means and have no real trouble talking with the ladies. What I do have trouble with is reading the signs, which I know a lot of guys have the same troubles with. There's a coffee shop that I go to almost everyday. I usually do some work, reading, or hang out with friends (one of them is the owner of the cafe). I've noticed this one girl who has started coming to the cafe on a very regular basis...she's usually there when I'm there. I normally sit at the bar/counter area and she does the same. I stroke up a conversation with her this past week and while at first I was only mildly interested, after getting to know her a little bit, my feelings for her have grown. So, here are some "signs" that I've picked up. - After our very first conversation, while packing up her things to leave, she asked me how old I was? - On a few occasions when all the seats were taken at the bar (there are only 3 seats at the bar and I always sit in the middle one) and she was forced to sit at a table, she would immediately move to the bar as soon as a chair would open up. - The other day, she was killing time in the cafe and asked if she could read the book I had on the counter. btw it's the kind of book that I assume most girls wouldn't be interested in (Physics of the Future) - I don't know about this one, but sometimes I get the "sense" that she's waiting for me. Does the fact of me merely having this "sense" mean anything? haha, damn I'm clueless. I know that there must be some interest, but would any of you say there's enough interest on her part that she might be waiting for me to ask her out? Conversation flows well and she seems to enjoy talking with me. She maintains great eye contact and smiles a lot (man, her smile is infectious!) But yeah, I'd like to see what others have to say. Thanks.
counterman Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 I would say based on your post there would be at least some interest. In saying that, in my experience, I have made mistakes where I thought a girl was really interested in me because things were really flowing well. Of course, whether there are signs or not, the best way to tell is by asking her out and since you're already gonna do that, all the best You have already established a connection with her, she enjoys conversing with you (smiles and eye contact) and I'm sure there are other 'signs', so yeah, see how it goes
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