bml929 Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 Hi all, So I said "I love you" to my girlfriend of 6 months for the first time a week ago by giving her a special gift. When I said it to her, she avoid eye contact, start to blush and keep smiling and laughing for no reason. But she said that she is not ready to said yet and i reply that its doesn't matter, because i just wanted to say it to her. Anyway i dont want to put pressure on her on saying it. my question is: while we are making love and having sex, I almost wanted to say it again. Is it weird of saying "i love you" before, during or after sex?
Feelin Frisky Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 Well, you don't want to wear it out or make it sound like it's all about what you feel. It might be somewhat smothering if you say that so much and she doesn't. At six months one would not be unreasonable to wonder though.
MaxNoob Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 Wait until the woman is a few seconds away from an orgasm, stop, look her straight in the eye, and say in a low tone “Bob Dole”. This never fails to end a relationship.
OnyxSnowfall Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 Wait until the woman is a few seconds away from an orgasm, stop, look her straight in the eye, and say in a low tone “Bob Dole”. This never fails to end a relationship. Lol?......
xoxoDaniellexoxo Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 Lol?...... ^^^^ My thoughts exactly!! I don't think it would be bad to say it but maybe wait a little longer since she seems a little uncomfertable!
make me believe Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 It's not weird to say I love you during or immediately after sex, but it might be too intense considering she hasn't returned the sentiment to you yet. I would hold off until she is more comfortable with hearing it and saying it back.
Lauriebell82 Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 It's not weird to say I love you during or immediately after sex, but it might be too intense considering she hasn't returned the sentiment to you yet. I would hold off until she is more comfortable with hearing it and saying it back. Yeah, I agree with this. My husband told me he loved me for the first time after we had sex and it was unbelievably amazing! I said it right back. OP, I would hold off though until she is ready to say it back. You don't want to scare her and put pressure on her to say it before she's ready to.
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