ccnaboy2000 Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 (edited) It's been exactly 1 month to the day since she got in her relationship with just a friend, and it's been 1 month to the day since I've had any contact.... And what do you know I just got a text, while I'm out walking my puppy. "Hey I know you don't care but I was just texting you to see how your doing. I saw a passat that looked like yours and it reminded me of you. Hope your doing good. Take care" I can't say I wasn't tempted to respond how awesome my life is turning out right now. But why waste my time, she's with someone new. Oh well nothing to worry about here. I'm just going to keep staying strong on move forward with my life without looking back. I've started talking to some new women, going on some dates. Nothing serious, I really don't want a relationship with anyone right now, but it's nice to go out and validate that I'm still attractive. Still don't know what to make of the text. Probably just a breadcrumb. But I'm not hungry. I will admit though I wouldn't mind entertaining the thought of getting back together someday in the distant future and dont know if NIC is the way to go, or if I should let it slide since she is still technically in a new relationship Edited October 30, 2011 by ccnaboy2000
mike588 Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 How long did you date and who broke up with who and why?
Author ccnaboy2000 Posted October 30, 2011 Author Posted October 30, 2011 we dated for 1.5yrs, lived together for about 1 of those years. She broke up with me because "lost the spark" "I love you but not in love with you" said things got boring and routine. It did, mainly because I saved every dollar I had over the past 3 months to get an engagement ring... My fault but oh well. We never fought or argued, no abuse. I went NC right away. She kept calling every few days showed up, said she wanted to work on things. 2 days later she was officially in a relationship with new guy. Haven't talked or heard from her until today. I don't know anything about her life right now actually. For all I know she's happy with the new guy. And I did wish her well in her new relationship the last time I spoke. I've been moving on working on myself. Been doing pretty good considering the fact actually. I've pretty much moved past anger and into acceptance now. I don't really hold grudges much.
Author ccnaboy2000 Posted October 30, 2011 Author Posted October 30, 2011 I decided to let it go. It's not what I wanted to hear. It's either A) She's feeling guilty about how she ended things. or B) Looking for an ego stroke. Though I guess it goes to show even if they jump into another relationship they still think about you. How much... I don't know. But unless it's an "I'm sorry I want to work on things like I said" It's not worth my time. I'm not going to play second fiddle to just a friend.
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