LK30 Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 Hi all, Not been on the forum for a while, but feeling a bit low and need cheering up! I stupidly looked at my ex gf's brother's FB profile and saw a photo album he'd downloaded to his profile of a day trip to London a few days ago. I had a look through (again stupidly) and my ex was in some of the pics...with a bloke. There were only a couple of shots of them together, and neither of them pics of holding hands, or hugging or indicating they're in a r'ship. What else could it mean. I admit my heart sank a little - even though we've been apart not far off 2 years. It was me that ended it with her, but I'm pretty certain that was her bf and I felt a bit gutted. I'm not crying or going to jump off a cliff over it, but I think the situation feels worse as I'm still alone and not met anyone since. I've not even had a date in the whole of 2011, and no girl has remotely looked at me. A couple of opportunities fizzled out before they started, and I guess I'm feeling low as perhaps I should have stayed with her. Even now, I think of her when I hear another girl with the same name, or see a car that looks identical to hers. I'm sure it's not natural to feel this way, but I know when I wake up in the morning I'll be alone and I'll think of her laying in bed snuggling up to the guy in the pics. I feel (and probably am) sad :-( :-(
mike588 Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 Hi all, Not been on the forum for a while, but feeling a bit low and need cheering up! I stupidly looked at my ex gf's brother's FB profile and saw a photo album he'd downloaded to his profile of a day trip to London a few days ago. I had a look through (again stupidly) and my ex was in some of the pics...with a bloke. There were only a couple of shots of them together, and neither of them pics of holding hands, or hugging or indicating they're in a r'ship. What else could it mean. I admit my heart sank a little - even though we've been apart not far off 2 years. It was me that ended it with her, but I'm pretty certain that was her bf and I felt a bit gutted. I'm not crying or going to jump off a cliff over it, but I think the situation feels worse as I'm still alone and not met anyone since. I've not even had a date in the whole of 2011, and no girl has remotely looked at me. A couple of opportunities fizzled out before they started, and I guess I'm feeling low as perhaps I should have stayed with her. Even now, I think of her when I hear another girl with the same name, or see a car that looks identical to hers. I'm sure it's not natural to feel this way, but I know when I wake up in the morning I'll be alone and I'll think of her laying in bed snuggling up to the guy in the pics. I feel (and probably am) sad :-( :-( I know the feeling of hearing the same name,, seeing a car that's like hers etc. It's ok. Stay off Facebook,, seeing stuff like that only sets you back,, you know better.
Bobby289 Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 Yeah No Contact means just that, even Facebook is one way communication! You are hurting yourself, I know the feeling but try to avoid anything that ties to her.
Deano8888 Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 well i'll give you a big hug, Just think, if you broke up with her it was for a reason. remember that reason cos if you got back with her you know the same issue would come up again. And you know what, think logically for a min. You know she was going to find someone else and she had a right to. Don't feel bad about it but see it as a opportunity to move on.
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