Author spinaroonie Posted November 23, 2011 Author Posted November 23, 2011 Well she's becoming more interested in me - you can tell just from the fact that she initiated it - which is huge - AND texted me AGAIN after I ignored her text. I would expect her to be a bit more compliant with my requests to hang out now, but I won't allude to any plans of seeing her again just yet, unless she asks me out. Give her a couple days of silence to stoke the fires of interest. She sounds like a classic introvert, which means that she will be slow to feel comfortable with me. I'm going to have to escalate very slowly and avoid pressuring her - "falling asleep" is a pretty common tactic that shy girls will use when they feel like they may be getting physical too soon. I'll make sure I start the dates in a neutral setting, and if I do take her back to my place, mention that I have to get up early. Comfort is key! Thoughts?
Author spinaroonie Posted December 3, 2011 Author Posted December 3, 2011 So I called her on Tuesday and set up a dessert date for Friday. No contact Wed or Thurs. Texts from Friday: Her (3:17 PM): Yo man... I already want dessert haha Me (6:52 PM): lol g working late again. I'll pick you up at 10 Her (few minutes later): Yes sir Picked her up from her house. Drove over to a coffee house, split a cheesecake (~ 30 min). Drove over to little pub after, split a pitcher (~ 1.5 hrs). Talk about the usual - movies, TV, family, work etc laced with some playful teasing back and forth. We talk about Seinfeld and I ask if she likes Curb Your Enthusiasm, she says yes, and I tell her it's one of my fav shows. We get to talking about one particular episode she's only seen clips of it but it's hilarious, and I tell her that I have that episode stored on my external HD (ruse to bring her back to my place). Finish our drinks, split the pill. So we drive back to my place, I link up my laptop to the TV, put on the episode of CYE and turn all the lights out. We sit on my couch, we're both laughing and having a good time. Head to the kitchen, pop open a bottle of wine, bring two glasses back to the living room and we both have a glass. Arm around her and stroking her thigh. When it ends I put on some slow jams, go caveman and we start making out. She asks if I have more wine, I say have a lot more and we both have another glass. I take her blazer off, she's got on a tank top underneath and asks me for a massage. Afterwards I pull her over to me, she straddles me on the couch and we both have our tops off. I pick her up, her legs wrapped around my waist, carry her to the bedroom and throw her on the bed. One thing leads to another, slip on a rubber - missionary, doggy, cowgirl, BJ - and it's done. Cuddle for a bit, tell her we'll grab a bite sometime later, and then she says she has to go - calls her dad to pick her up! First day game bang!
dasein Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 Good for you for sticking in there so long. You have more patience than me and it paid off for you. I want to cite this thread for the next time the "women have just as hard a time finding sex as men do" and "double standard" BS comes up. Average women simply don't have to go to the lengths average men do to in seeking and obtaining sex, so the old "man stud/woman slut" double standard holds no water at all.
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