Buttercup84 Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 (edited) It should say " ever " sorry ! My ex never hit me but did lash out verbally sometimes. While we were together he had a misunderstanding with our real estate agent and told her to " **** off " over the phone . Also left a note for our neighbours once who were loud saying " keep the ****ing noise down ...etc" and a few ****s thrown in . He went off at a lot of people and when he went hunting with his friends they would sometimes shoot at thugs to scare them off . He had a tiff with his former female manager , when he was on the phone to friends he would just bitch about other people and swear . Yet he could be so polite , was nice to my parents and gay friends .. His sister and I got on well but she told me how she beat the crap out of a girl once for teasing her friend . His sister is a big amazon like woman and also did some drug dealing on the side for a while. My ex was obsessed with guns . Now I have no freaking idea why I stayed . I am against guns , I might have a temper sometimes but never that extreme. I just kept making excuses for him with his temper. He was always in some kind of war with neighbours. We moved three times and I knew he would always have a problem with them . And most of the time it was me who had to go over and ask them to keep it down . He was too much of a coward to do that himself . I remaind polite with them , didn't really want to go over . He was always so stressed and was on anxiety medication. Nothing wrong with taking medication but not everyone with anxiety is like him . He even put his car on sale so we could move from some neighbours . He once called the police telling them that there is a domestic in the flat below because they were noisy.Apparently the police came storming up and banged on their door . I wasn't home that day . I know I was stupid for staying , it took me this long to see it .He did a lot fo other things too . Urgh Edited October 30, 2011 by Buttercup84
mike588 Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 Glad to see your seeing the "real him". You don't need someone in your life like that,, your so much better than him. Let's keep hanging in there for the right person!
loversquarrel Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 Good to see your moving on from him, he may not have abused you yet but he definately has anger management issues that could end up getting him hurt or worse. Just because someone has guns doesn't make them bad or abusive. I know alot of aholes that don't.
Author Buttercup84 Posted October 30, 2011 Author Posted October 30, 2011 Good to see your moving on from him, he may not have abused you yet but he definately has anger management issues that could end up getting him hurt or worse. Just because someone has guns doesn't make them bad or abusive. I know alot of aholes that don't. Thanks , I do agree however he was a bit obsessed with them and misused them . Oh well
Author Buttercup84 Posted October 30, 2011 Author Posted October 30, 2011 Glad to see your seeing the "real him". You don't need someone in your life like that,, your so much better than him. Let's keep hanging in there for the right person! Thank you Mike , I can always count on you yes , hope we do meet them x
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