futuregopher Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 I cockblocked myself last night. I was hanging out with this pretty cute girl at the bar but I felt bad for this guy I came with. I just met him like 25 minutes ago and I felt bad b/c he was standing there by himself so I asked this girl if she had any friends. I think she was there by herself and felt embarrassed so she went elsewhere and left us. She was like a 7/10 and told me I looked cute in my chef costume a few times. It really felt like there was attraction/chemistry there. I didn't even get a number! Oh well... hahaha
leninjapirate Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 Just my two cents as a lady person, I HATE when guys ask if I have any friends to set their friend up with. Especially when it's a boyfriend asking for one of his friends. If the friend is RIGHT THERE I can't be honest about it without insulting the guy, but I'm not going to force my friend to fake interest in a guy she has no interest in. I can understand guys thinking that they're doing a nice thing for their friend and not wanting them to feel lonely, but it puts me in an awkward situation and shows little concern for me or my friends. I'd never say something like that if the situation was reversed. I'd take the guy I was into aside, tell them that I felt bad about ignoring my friend or leaving her alone, and offer him my number so we could get together some other time. (But since you're a guy, if I was you I'd ask for hers instead of offer mine). Chefs' outfits aren't cute, so she must've been really into you Damn!
Fondue Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 This happens to me all the time. I always choose my friend over women. If I am at the bar and I'm chatting up women and see my friend is having a beer by himself, I will always excuse myself and plainly tell them that I do not want to see my buddy drinking by himself. The friends always say something like: "dude, I didn't care one bit, I wish you would have just continued on with the girl. Trust me, I'm cool with it." But even so, I still choose my friends over random women . I can't imagine that anyone would choose otherwise. That just means you don't value your friendship.
Author futuregopher Posted October 29, 2011 Author Posted October 29, 2011 Just my two cents as a lady person, I HATE when guys ask if I have any friends to set their friend up with. Especially when it's a boyfriend asking for one of his friends. If the friend is RIGHT THERE I can't be honest about it without insulting the guy, but I'm not going to force my friend to fake interest in a guy she has no interest in. I can understand guys thinking that they're doing a nice thing for their friend and not wanting them to feel lonely, but it puts me in an awkward situation and shows little concern for me or my friends. I'd never say something like that if the situation was reversed. I'd take the guy I was into aside, tell them that I felt bad about ignoring my friend or leaving her alone, and offer him my number so we could get together some other time. (But since you're a guy, if I was you I'd ask for hers instead of offer mine). Chefs' outfits aren't cute, so she must've been really into you Damn! Wow. It's so interesting and insightful to get a woman's point of view! Thanks! But now I'm self conscious about chef outfits not looking cute
leninjapirate Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 Wow. It's so interesting and insightful to get a woman's point of view! Thanks! But now I'm self conscious about chef outfits not looking cute Haha, cheers! Great that my little rant was appreciated As for the uniform, if it's the big smock type that I'm thinking of then... yeh But if it's not just a costume and you're actually able to cook, that's definitely sexy!
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