eleanorhurting Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 Ok first of all I hope no one follows my example. Binge drinking is bad. This is quite embarassing. As some of you know my ex and I have tons of mutual friends. We are both in medical school and we are classmates. Last night was a girlfriends birthday and we went to a bar. After a while he showed up with a guy friend (my friends knew he was coming but they didn't tell me because they thought I would leave if I knew! ugh didnt appreciate that). We had been drinking for a long time and I was pretty drunk and so were all of my friends. He tried to talk to me and I dont even know what he was saying but i remember telling him that i dont talk to him that i dont want to know anything about him. about an hour later we ended up at my girlfriends house and he showed up with this other guy. I felt really sick and I threw up and he tried to hold my hair but i told him i didnt want to talk to him at all. He then just backed away and told my girlfriends what they needed to do (get me water, hold my hair, put me to sleep, etc). I yelled at him that he should leave and I flicked him off and i fell asleep with my middle finger pointing at him. I know this is not something to laugh about but I had to laugh about it the next day. I guess its better than feeling bad about it? My friends said they ere impressed because they thought we would somehow end up hooking up. But they also said I was really mean and that he was really trying to help me and was concerned about me. But at the same time at one point he told me he could see my underwear. ugh. I am so glad this person is no longer in my life in that way. I really dont want him to have a part in my life but at the same time I am embarassed I really dont have to apollogize right? I have been feeling so good about myself lately. Despite everything I had fun with my girlfriends last night and today in the morning. Anyways, binge drinking is bad dont do it.
coltsfan1 Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 been there, binge drinking that is..... Just stop heavy drinking and tell your mutual friends you don't appreciate their decision and from now on if he is going to be invited it would be best for you both for you not to come. If they can not respect that then they aren't either mature or very good friends. I shot whiskey through my brain for 9 months, so trust one night isn't all that bad!!!
Bobby289 Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 HA ohh no don't apologize, that's pretty funny actually.
Author eleanorhurting Posted October 29, 2011 Author Posted October 29, 2011 I was so determined not to break no contact lol Its still a struggle! It had gotten easier but I feel like yesterday was a set back.
Bobby289 Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 I guess it's how you look at it. You guys didn't hook up, I would say that is a step forward!
Author eleanorhurting Posted October 29, 2011 Author Posted October 29, 2011 Yeah we didnt really talk. Hooking up was never an option. I am so determined to move past that.
Sugarkane Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 Why did the. ex even show up for? Did they invite him? Makes me glad I don't have any mutual friends anymore.
Author eleanorhurting Posted October 30, 2011 Author Posted October 30, 2011 Yes we are classmates and we have a ton of mutual friends. It is very hard. I was feeling better but this incident brought back negative feelings about the whole situation. Oh well I just need to just keep swimming and focusing on all the good things I have accomplished since I let him out of my life.
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