Bobby289 Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 You want to go out with your ex, me too... what's on your mind?
LSgirl Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 I want to see my ex, too. Tonight, even though I want to and have to work early tomorrow morning, I'm going out with some of my friends to downtown and walk the streets. Everybody dresses up in costumes and drinks. I know he'll be there, but I don't think I'll run into him since there's thousands that show up and he'll be at a music event in downtown (he originally got me a ticket and were supposed to go together before the breakup). It's Day 7 of No Contact, still awful....
fenderjames Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 Yep Halloween . I know - another " special " day you won't be sharing together . Re : going out drinking .... with all due respect , are you sure thats a good idea ? I only mention this because alcohol intensifies the bad feelings for me . I haven't had a beer in a week ( and I thought I missed her bad lol ) and I swear I think its helped me move forward . Just dont want to see anyone on here feeling any worse than they already do .
LSgirl Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 I don't want to drink either, but I've been trying to go out and socialize, and that most of the time involves drinking. I do feel depressed by the end of the night, but it's also better than sitting at home, too. I do think of him more and tend to look at my phone more when I'm drinking
ashleybond Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 This is my first post, I have been lurking for about 6 weeks.. So HI ALL!! I am 5 months post BU, for the first 3 months we were still sharing our house as I looked for a flat. Halloween was the first night we got together, and this year would have been our 8 year anniversary. So Halloween really sucks for me.....I am still currently going through the cant eat stage, and early morning wake ups. Have been to the docs and am back on the anti-ds and have a appointment with a therapist on Nov 14th.
Author Bobby289 Posted October 29, 2011 Author Posted October 29, 2011 Guys forget about your exes for Halloween! Come on! This is one of the most fun nights of the year! Not to mention there will be a lot of good looking girls around haha. Go have fun and get wild and for this weekend at least, stop thinking about your ex. Good luck! Wish it was that easy to forget! I'm not looking to go wild and make a mistake I will regret, beauty is skin deep right now. Im not cocky but I know plenty of beautiful girls that I could party with and would want me to go home with them. That's not me though, I am trying to work on me and having a night of infatuation right now would only make it worse. I don't mind the company of beautiful girls but all I ever do is zone out and think of my ex. Drinking will make me break NC for sure lol and that's the last thing I need lol
BigDumbFoot Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 Just doing the typical wallowy stuff. Wondering what her plans are for the weekend, if she's thinking about me, if she misses me when she goes out, if she's taking care of herself, etc etc.. But luckily I have plans with my friends so I won't have to be alone tonight! yay!
mike588 Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 We made plans many months ago to go to my friends huge Halloween Party but then she dumped me so I'll be going alone. Bummer!
charlie88 Posted November 1, 2011 Posted November 1, 2011 My girlfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago. We had planned our halloween costumes. We were going to be beetlejuice and lydia. I bought all the stuff and left it at her house. Today I log onto facebook and her profile picture is her dressed up with some other guy wearing my costume. I did nothing but help her during her time of struggle with drugs and she does this...
perfectlyflawed459 Posted November 1, 2011 Posted November 1, 2011 Last year my ex was the Joker and I was Harley Quinn, we won the best couple's costume award at a party we went to. Ugh I miss him, but it's okay! I went downtown with my friends and I had a blast We can't be down every holiday now! They only come once a year and life is so short, so live it up!
The Poster Posted November 1, 2011 Posted November 1, 2011 Funny thing is, My ex and I never really cared for Halloween. We never dress up or anything, yet for some reason I still found myself a bit more upset today and this weekend than usual. I guess it was just a holiday I was spending without her. With Christmas being my favorite time of year, I can only imagine how much hell it's going to be this year.
Mallow Posted November 1, 2011 Posted November 1, 2011 I am relieved that my Halloween is not being spent with my ex. I have happily moved on. Stay strong, you'll all reach this point soon!
radiodarcy Posted November 1, 2011 Posted November 1, 2011 i actually forgot it was halloween until i heard a knock at the door and opened it to find two youngsters with hockey masks i was genuinely startled until one of them said "happy halloween!" but at any rate this is yet another holiday i won't miss spending with the ex. he loved to dress up and go out and get tons of attention and i didn't. and of course he loved to tell me how much attention i missed him getting from all the ladies:rolleyes: umm yeah- - i won't be missing that part either
stunned8165 Posted November 1, 2011 Posted November 1, 2011 My ex left at the end of May to be with her boss after being the day of her 4 & 5 year old for three years, being like a good husband, paying the bills doin the laundry etc etc. Our 4th Halloween would have been yasterday. We were suppose to go as Mortisha and Gomez Adams. We have those characteristics. But what I wanted the most, is to be with the kids that I loved like my own. This would have been our 4th Halloween together. I must say I had a huge hole in me yesterday..Actually teared up thinking about it. Amazes me how women can just walk away with no regard for the kids, me or herself because this will bite her in the arse.
shayla Posted November 1, 2011 Posted November 1, 2011 My current BF bought us matching costumes, and we went out and had a fantastic time. Didn't think of my ex once. I have finally, finally moved on, yeah!!!
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