crackster Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 Guys its getting realy bad its been 2 month and its getting worse. Not better 2 month nc and am still thinking of her and I even.cried am 25 what's wrong with Me I should not be crying over some one who dumped me by txt after 2 half years saying I dont love you that's all I got . I thinly its just really getting me am sooo unhappy my bday next week hope to have sum fun.
2011 Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 Hi Sorry to hear about your predicament, there's nothing wrong with you, you are just grieving the loss plus your pride took a bit of a denting. Don't let your mind make this more hassle on you than it really is, sure it is not a nice thing to go through but don't sit there letting your mind wander, keep active, busy, go out and try and socialise etc. I know you maybe don't feel like it but you will feel better when you get out and about.The more your mind is concentrated on other things you will get over it much quicker. Don't do what I did and sit around for 8 months in a bad mood playing over and over again the "what if" scenarios it gets you no where and drives you insane. 2011
Bobby289 Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 (edited) First off nothing wrong with crying it's a natural human reaction, no matter your age or gender. Some people bottle up these emotions and pretend to be okay but it will eventually catch up to them and come out in some way. The only way to get better is to find a way for yourself to clear your mind, even if it only distracts you a little bit, it's a little bit less than sitting and thinking about her. I go to the gym a lot more, I will lift and get in the zone for a good 20 minutes then BOOM I think about her, then I force myself to get back to my routine! I understand she is always in your head, all of us think about our ex. Have you talked to a therapist? I was always too proud to go but honestly it was the best thing for me. Edited October 29, 2011 by Bobby289
Author crackster Posted October 29, 2011 Author Posted October 29, 2011 cheers people no i have seen a therapist (yet!) am trying my best to get out and about.. u all no how this feels am glad am not alone! like i said my birthday next sat am going to town 4 a lads night out! can wait! thanks guys!!
fenderjames Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 Hey C, just read your post . Yeah I know its real hard but stick to it . Im in the same boat . Its brutal NC , I dont remember ever doing something this tough ( emotionally ) . Ive got a couple extra weeks on you , but not far off from where you are . Im strting to feel a bit better , still think of her many times through out the day , but starting to come to grips with the fact that I dont need someone in my life that treats me this way . That helps . I miss her something fierce , but I don't want to hear from her as much as I used to . As I said , I don't want someone that treats me like this as a girlfriend . Stay true bro , I swear to you it will get better .
Author crackster Posted October 29, 2011 Author Posted October 29, 2011 Hey C, just read your post . Yeah I know its real hard but stick to it . Im in the same boat . Its brutal NC , I dont remember ever doing something this tough ( emotionally ) . Ive got a couple extra weeks on you , but not far off from where you are . Im strting to feel a bit better , still think of her many times through out the day , but starting to come to grips with the fact that I dont need someone in my life that treats me this way . That helps . I miss her something fierce , but I don't want to hear from her as much as I used to . As I said , I don't want someone that treats me like this as a girlfriend . Stay true bro , I swear to you it will get better . Thanks mate! i just dont really understand it! we were dead happy 2geta and out the blue all this! same says i feel good but most the time i think of her 24/7 i miss her so much it really does hurt! but like you said we just have to push forward! she not who i thought she was !
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