Is there ever a right time to have a child?

[ALittleBuzzyBee]

I'm 20 (don't worry, no plans to have kids yet!) and at university and have been thinking about this a lot recently.

 

Is there ever really a right time to have children?

 

As a student, I want the chance to be able to have a career before children. I work hard at my degree and I want to use it. I'll be twenty two by the time I finish- still too young for children I think- but I'd want to dedicate a good ten years to my career before children. However, a lot of people would say that thirty two is quite old for a first child. However, at that time would the scale of work (I want to be a police officer- that's 12 hour shifts) make it too difficult to have the time to have children?

 

I see people who had kids young (a slightly worrying number of girls from my year (grade) in school) and they never do anything with their lives. They stay stuck in the same town, in bad jobs and that isn't want I want. I want to leave the country, travel around, have an amazing career that I can throw myself into.

 

What do you think? Is there ever really a right time to have kids, or is it just me and the sad truth that children don't fit into the lifestyle I want?

[OneFootOut]

I'm 20 (don't worry, no plans to have kids yet!) and at university and have been thinking about this a lot recently.

 

Is there ever really a right time to have children?

 

As a student, I want the chance to be able to have a career before children. I work hard at my degree and I want to use it. I'll be twenty two by the time I finish- still too young for children I think- but I'd want to dedicate a good ten years to my career before children. However, a lot of people would say that thirty two is quite old for a first child. However, at that time would the scale of work (I want to be a police officer- that's 12 hour shifts) make it too difficult to have the time to have children?

 

I see people who had kids young (a slightly worrying number of girls from my year (grade) in school) and they never do anything with their lives. They stay stuck in the same town, in bad jobs and that isn't want I want. I want to leave the country, travel around, have an amazing career that I can throw myself into.

 

What do you think? Is there ever really a right time to have kids, or is it just me and the sad truth that children don't fit into the lifestyle I want?

 

It sounds to me like you have a good head on your shoulders and a good plan for your life. If I were in your shoes, I would pursue my career. IF you wish to have kids later on (30's) that's actually a good age to have them. You will be more mature and have the life experience you need to have them and raise them with a quality life, as well as be able to guide them on a good path, since you have already mastered your own

 

I became a mother at 17. I grew up real fast and have always taken care of my kids. I didn't dump them on my parents as many young parents do these days. It was hard. I worked and tried to put myself through college while raising them. Ultimately, it never worked out for me. My children became my priority and my career.

 

I don't regret the way it went because I have incredible kids who are the joy of my life, but with that said, I never had a chance to just experience my own life and explore what was out there.

 

 

Good luck with your plans, I think you will be an outstanding police officer, because your passion about it comes through in your words

[Afishwithabike]

I'm 20 (don't worry, no plans to have kids yet!) and at university and have been thinking about this a lot recently.

 

Is there ever really a right time to have children?

 

As a student, I want the chance to be able to have a career before children. I work hard at my degree and I want to use it. I'll be twenty two by the time I finish- still too young for children I think- but I'd want to dedicate a good ten years to my career before children. However, a lot of people would say that thirty two is quite old for a first child. However, at that time would the scale of work (I want to be a police officer- that's 12 hour shifts) make it too difficult to have the time to have children?

 

I see people who had kids young (a slightly worrying number of girls from my year (grade) in school) and they never do anything with their lives. They stay stuck in the same town, in bad jobs and that isn't want I want. I want to leave the country, travel around, have an amazing career that I can throw myself into.

 

What do you think? Is there ever really a right time to have kids, or is it just me and the sad truth that children don't fit into the lifestyle I want?

 

I think now is the time for you to travel, have wild times with your friends, save money, etc. I don't know if you're into partying or going to bars but that will need to be out of your system before you can be a parent.

 

My parents had me in their early 30s so age 32 isn't too late to have children. I got married in my late 20s and had a child a few years later, but before we had our child we had traveled the world, we had saved money, we did things that we now can't or won't because we're parents. I also had the advantage of having a long history at my job so my employer was willing to give me extended leave for me to stay at home with my child. They were willing to do that because I had proven myself. If I got pregnant right after I started working there, I doubt they would have been as generous.

 

There is no perfect time to have a child. It's a balancing act between being not too old and not too broke. If you wait too long, say until about age 38 or so, you might face a difficult time getting pregnant as fertility declines with age. If you ask me, I would say between the ages of 26 and 34 are the perfect years for the average person to have a child. Of course, you'll need to have a stable spouse with a decent job because you can't be broke and have a child. Children are quite expensive.

Edited November 1, 2011 by Afishwithabike

[lifechanyuan]

In the second home, all the children is our own children.all the old man is our own parents.so, the life does not exist such trouble.

[setsenia]

Sounds like you got a good head on your shoulders. I am 22 and I know what you mean. I have several friends who started having children at 19 and some are 23 and have two children. I can tell you that most of them aren't having a good living and struggling to get by on wic and food stamps because most people are not ready to have children at those ages. I've often wondered the same thing as you. I got married at 19, and of course everyone thought I was pregnant or due to have children soon, but I am almost 23 now, happily married and childfree. We do want children someday, when I am closer to 30. I do want to travel and have a good career first, so it's important to take the steps to ensure I don't have children before I am ready. People often say that you can never be 100% ready and I can agree to some extent, because you will always make mistakes, which doesn't mean you are a bad parent, but there is always something to learn from something unexpected. You cannot prepare for everything, but you can ensure that you are financially stable and emotionally ready to have a child. My husband's mother and my mother became mothers at 19 and 20, and had a lot of issues while we grew up, because they were too immature to be mothers. Travel and get your career going. Do what you want to do right now. People have told me 30 is too old to have children, but in this day and age, most people aren't ready until at least their late twenties. Don't worry or feel pressured to have children too young. When you are ready, you will know and there is also that possibility that you may decide having children isn't for you and that is also perfectly okay. You are doing the right thing, keep it up!

[norajane]

However, at that time would the scale of work (I want to be a police officer- that's 12 hour shifts) make it too difficult to have the time to have children?

 

That certainly will make it more challenging to care for children. You'll need to have very good, reliable, and "available at a moment's notice to stay when you have overtime" child care in place. Or a stay-at-home dad. I'd be concerned about the danger of the job, too. Every time you walk out the door to go to work, you really don't know if you'll be back safe and sound.

 

Otherwise, waiting until your early 30's to have kids is generally fine, provided that you actually have a man in your life at the time you are ready for motherhood.

[Citizen Erased]

In the second home, all the children is our own children.all the old man is our own parents.so, the life does not exist such trouble.

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