Phone Convo that needs translation...What he said and what he was "really" thinking..

[TxTechGirl04]

Okay...this is interesting...

 

Ex called about 5 minutes ago...

 

Convo started out okay...but I was obviously being distant...

 

Finally he said "Well, I told you I would call you in a couple of days so I am callng you..."

 

I was kinda quiet and he said "did you not want me to call"

 

I said, "Its okay that you called me, but I don't have a whole lot to say"

 

He said, "Well I don't have a whole lot to say to you either but I told you I would call"

 

He acted like he was a little put out by me not having anything to say and just said "well okay, have a good night, bye"....

 

Up until this point I have been the one calling and pursuing him and I finally decided that I wasn't going to let him get to me anymore...

 

So tonight I tried to act like it wasn't a big deal that he called me...I need a guy to translate the conversation. Just need some outside opinions!!

[MESO]

It sounds like he is really really trying to let you know that he is just doing YOU a favor by calling.....

 

I dont know what his real motive here was but i sounded like he wants to check up on you but hes just making it sound like the only reason he called was because you wanted him to

[hurtingandconfused]

Games all games...He's an ex leave it as that.