bizzle123 Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 What do people think is the best way in dealing with your ex partner's anger in a breakup? My girlfriend has broken up with me, and is now telling her friends when they try to rein her in and bring a little perspective replies with nasty lines and accusations like 'it's easy for you to say how amazing he's been [through her health problems]... you don't know how violent he's been...'. Previously there have been nasty spiteful texts just trying to get to me as well. It's been a week since the last of those, but over the last week I've just been hearing about her anger and hatred even. It was only a week ago when she told a mutual friend she wants to get back, just not yet because she needs a lot of space to deal with her personal issues and the relationship was too much for her. She is having a go at her friends now too, and starting to loose them. She has other friends from back home, and a particular bitchy and nasty house mate who I fear encourages her. My original story can be seen here http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=3693155#post3693155 She can't believe the nasty things she says? What is the best cure at the moment? They time say heals everything, but you know when people tell themselves something enough times, they gradually start to believe it?
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