ShaneSchommer Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 Well my long distance relationship has come to an end, my girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me today saying it was too stressful for her to worry about school and worrying about not calling me or talking to me enough, i honestly thought she was the one we were best friends and extremely attracted to eachother and i just dont get it. im sitting here crying and cant stop thinking about her. i really dont know what to do. she has been my only friend since i moved to this state.
Author ShaneSchommer Posted October 29, 2011 Author Posted October 29, 2011 I didnt say why she broke up but it was because we started arguing a lot recently. she has become very stressed with school and kept snapping at me when we would talk, and then we would argue because I got upset or mad that she wasnt making enough time to talk to me. She said she always worried about not calling or texting enough and trying to make me happy, she cant deal with the pressure anymore. I just want her back and cant stop thinking about her. Ill be going to school in spring only a half hour away to her is there any chance of us getting back together?
TMichaels Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 Ill be going to school in spring only a half hour away to her is there any chance of us getting back together? Not if you continue to be a burden and annoyance. Back off and give her space. There's a chance she may not come back to you in the the end, but I guarantee she won't if you continue to be such a source of her aggravation and stress. Best, TMichaels
Sake3838 Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 Send her a message, explaining how you feel, and enclose with a message saying you respect her space and her needs, and you will leave her alone but your heart will remain hers until she decides what she wants, and that once both of you sort out your life a little bit more and assess what you both need and want. You give her the option to contact you , and you will be there. Dont push anymore like TMichaels said. Just say your piece and back away.
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