fayefayo Posted October 28, 2011 Posted October 28, 2011 So the story is here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t304330/ Basically, he was happy to get a second chance with me and thought we can really work out for good (since we are finally on the same page and want to be with each other) until I've told him about how I almost got taken advantage of by one of his friend while we were broken up the first time (He broke my heart the first time too) He's the one that was with someone else while we were apart, and I was heart broken and pretty much was a victim of an unfortunate event...maybe I shouldn't have told him.......I guess his "view" of me changed with this event....and no one said love have to be fair... The last words I got out of him was "we can talk in about three weeks" I don't know his reason for saying that....and he having communicate his feelings.... Do you guys think there could be a third time?
NordicStripes Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 If he was with someone else while you were apart, and you almost were. Then he would be a big baby and have double standards if he can't cope with what you almost did...
R32 Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 1) I don't understand how some people are completely clueless of what's going on around them when drunk. I can drink a lot, and still have SOMEWHAT of a sense of what's happening. 2) Yes he was with someone else while you two were apart, and it was his decision to call it off. However, I can see why he was a bit upset, as this was HIS friend. It's like if he went and dated your best friend after you guys broke up. You don't really have a right to be pissed, but it is kind of a low blow.
Author fayefayo Posted October 29, 2011 Author Posted October 29, 2011 exactly...his problem is the fact that it's HIS friend....and no i am not pissed..even though its not exactly my fault....I will admit to be stupid enough to trust the wrong people...but what happened wasn't under my control.....I've been extremely understanding...and endure quite a bit of bad times with him, hoping he can see how much I do love him....I guess in the end if he feel that this is worth throwing away our relationship for then he doesn't care for me enough....He's one of those guy that say he doesn't know what love is....
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