NCAngler Posted October 28, 2011 Posted October 28, 2011 Hey guys- There's this girl in my college success class who sits in front of me. She's really pretty but I haven't really had a lot of time to talk to her (need to MAKE time somehow). The other day, I approached her and asked if she did the research paper we had due that day. We started talking for about a minute. We made constant eye contact. She didn't look away from me while talking. When class started, she and I walked to the front to grab our paper "tents" with our names on it that the teacher uses even though we're in college. She grabs hers first and then asks what my name is so she could grab mine. Correct me if I'm wrong, but most people just grab whatever their grabbing and lets the next person get theirs (not all the time, but from what I've seen, it's common). Maybe it was an excuse to find out what my name is? I hope so. So this is what kind of gives it away, but I want to see what you guys think. Several times during class, she'll quickly glance back at me. Sometimes she'll flip her hair and glance at me in the process. There's no clock, nobody beside me, and the windows have closed blinds. If she's looking at something else I'm not aware of it. Saw her in the hall yesterday and she smiled and said hey instead of simply passing by. Probably doesn't mean much, but who knows. I know, I know, be a man. Ask her out. Just wanted to get some opinions before I make the move. Appreciate it in advance!
tman666 Posted October 28, 2011 Posted October 28, 2011 Sometimes these kinds of subtleties can be confusing. She could simply be being friendly. If you're worried about minimizing risk to your pride, you might want to ask her to join you for a coffee/study session. It'd be a good chance to determine whether or not she's comfortable enough with you to want to be alone with you. That being said, she could potentially take such a get together as a signal from you that you're only interested in being study buddies. The other option is to sack up and ask her out on a proper romantic date. If she says no, then it's no big deal. Whatever you do, inaction will leave you wondering...
Author NCAngler Posted October 30, 2011 Author Posted October 30, 2011 Thanks for the reply. Any further advice/opinions are greatly appreciated!
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