KimberlyIssac Posted October 28, 2011 Posted October 28, 2011 (edited) I'm not sure, and really need help on what some signs are? and what, I should be looking for? I don't really know what he is doing behind my back. All I know is yes, something is going on. I feel it, in my gut. The way he acts is making me suspicious. On rare days my gut is fine, then out of no where I get this really bad gut wrenching feeling that something just isn't right. Boyfriend is in the military, and we live a long way from home. I have no family or friends near me to talk to, just over the computer. I don't really want to air our dirty laundry so to speak, out on facebook. Background information, a few years ago, he did cheat on me. Was taking some girl out to lunch, dinner and other things, behind my back. A mutual friend thought I should know and told me. I gave him another chance. I never got over it, and he seemed to do whatever he could after he got caught to make us work. He does not get on the computer at home very often, and everyday after pt, he leaves his cell phone in his car. My bf is the type to call and talk to people on his way home from pt, and on his way to and from work. So makes me wonder who he might be talking to. Sometimes when his cell phone rings in front of me, he won't answer it. He text often, but when I have checked out his cell phone, there isn't knew text, it's like he is deleting them. He never asked or wants to go out and do anything with me. Anytime I bring something up for us to do. For two months now, every weekend, He says he has to work, or do this or that. The weird thing is, sometimes on the weekend, when he claims he has to work, he is only gone for an hour or two then back home. Other times he is gone for hours, a few times he was gone all night. The other guys he works with are not working. During the week, I never get the chance to ask him to go see a movie, or dinner or anything. Because as soon as he gets home, he always says how tired he is, and how sore he is from working out. I could believe this every now and again. Seriously, this is every single day. About every single day he goes to bed early. 6-7 at night, I'm sitting here once again bored out of my mind. He still wants to have sex often, but he doesn't seem to really want to do anything else, in our relationship. I tried talking to him and I get no where. We do have a child together, and I feel like all I am is a baby sitter so he can go do what ever he wants. I'm the one who does everything for our baby, cooks and cleans, and all I want is a good relationship. I have even been catching him going through my email, and my facebook. I have asked him to stop, and he keeps on doing it. I'm not sure why? Do you think I'm crazy? Or do you think I'm right for feeling like something is very wrong here? What should I do? Edited October 28, 2011 by KimberlyIssac
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