headsashed Posted October 28, 2011 Posted October 28, 2011 As i said in a earlier post,my ex had txt me asking to borrow a dvd to take with her on her trip,i never replied to her. Anyway,a few hours ago she turned up at my house,as i live in an upstairs flat i cannot see who's at my door until i open it lol. Well, i opened the door and she was stood there all dressed up read for her trip,grr she looked stunning too but nvm lol,and i just stood in silence and then i was like "ye" and i wouldnt let her in,she asked for that dvd and i said no i havent got it even though i have,i think she knew i was lying lol,. anyway then she asked where i was moving to and when,how she knows is beyond me too,i just said away from here and probably tomorrow,if i get that 1 house i can move tomorrow. then i just said you wont see me again anway so thats it then ,and her reply was and this is her exact words "it wont be". Then i just said im going now,enjoy your holiday,i shut the door and then i got a txt saying ill let u know when i get there.. I personally think i handled this situation well,i didnt let her in and i kept it pretty breif,so im pretty proud of myself for once lol,its just those words she said that bugged me afterwards "it wont be" ..well unlucky her because theres no way on earth she can contact me once ive moved haha.
geegirl Posted October 28, 2011 Posted October 28, 2011 As i said in a earlier post,my ex had txt me asking to borrow a dvd to take with her on her trip,i never replied to her. Anyway,a few hours ago she turned up at my house,as i live in an upstairs flat i cannot see who's at my door until i open it lol. Well, i opened the door and she was stood there all dressed up read for her trip,grr she looked stunning too but nvm lol,and i just stood in silence and then i was like "ye" and i wouldnt let her in,she asked for that dvd and i said no i havent got it even though i have,i think she knew i was lying lol,. anyway then she asked where i was moving to and when,how she knows is beyond me too,i just said away from here and probably tomorrow,if i get that 1 house i can move tomorrow. then i just said you wont see me again anway so thats it then ,and her reply was and this is her exact words "it wont be". Then i just said im going now,enjoy your holiday,i shut the door and then i got a txt saying ill let u know when i get there.. I personally think i handled this situation well,i didnt let her in and i kept it pretty breif,so im pretty proud of myself for once lol,its just those words she said that bugged me afterwards "it wont be" ..well unlucky her because theres no way on earth she can contact me once ive moved haha. You said your friends may have told her that you are moving and I am sure your friends will tell her where as well and will probably be able to sneak an address. Does your door not have a peephole so that you can see who is on the other sider before answering? I don't know her but she is so annoying.
crackster Posted October 28, 2011 Posted October 28, 2011 How long u been broke up like? u been NC? and yeah i think you did the right thing there like? did she end it with u ?
Author headsashed Posted October 28, 2011 Author Posted October 28, 2011 no geegirl it doesnt have a peephole unfortunaly,its worse that though because i always answer the door to salesmen lol. crackster,we have been broke up 7 weeks just about,for the 1st 4 weeks it was lots of contact tbh,depsite telling her 3 times to not contact me,after that the txts etc were more quiet,until about a week ago where i have stuck to NC,she's txt me a few times this past week but i havent replied and twice she has turned up. She was the 1 who dumped me for whatever reason,ive had 3 lol. Ill not deny the fact that i love this girl with all my heart because i do,but shes hurting me so much hence why ive stuck to NC and decided to move house and not tell her where,oh and geegirl,it had to come from some mutual friend of ours but none of them are actually close friends that id see personally when i move so i dont think she will get my address,theres 2 houses im picking from,1 of them im actually 2nd choice and the other 1 is pretty close to where she works but i dont think she would actually see me tbh and if she does ill have to run run run lol.
Bobby289 Posted October 28, 2011 Posted October 28, 2011 Good job on sticking to NC, sounds like she's turning into a stage 5 clinger...
geegirl Posted October 28, 2011 Posted October 28, 2011 Ok, that's good that she won't have an address. I just hope it nevers gets to her. I don't even know her and I feel drained by her. I'm glad to hear that you are not giving in though to her crap. I know it hurts but it's a good sign that you are able to ignore. Once you move you will have solitude and peace. And your healing can really begin.
Author headsashed Posted October 28, 2011 Author Posted October 28, 2011 i highly doubt she will find out to be honest,if she does then she does,nothing i can do about tha,just hope ive moved on by the time she does. She's just txt me saying shes got there ok and its near where me an her used to stay, im actually glad she txt this 1 time just so i know she got there safely,she might have broke my heart but i still want her to be safe if u know what i mean. i havent replied either.
EgoJoe Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 For the love of GOD don't reply. The nerve of this broad. Yeesh.
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