desperate

[stuma67]

My wife of three years moved back home to her mothers (she is 45 and I am 44) She started seeing our landlord behind my back while I was at work. When I asked her why she said she wanted me to hate her, I don't know why but I can't hate her. I am so in love with her I treat her like a queen, I don't make a lot of money and she is freaking out because she is 45 and has nothing to show. We pay our bills and go out but we can not put anything in the savings. I have given her plenty of chances to get a divorce but she says she wants to stay together, I need her home with me it is so hard being in the same bed without her. I must clarify that they both say that they did not have sex but just kissed a couple of times and talked, he is about 60 lbs over weight with a mullet. I don't understand what happened, she says that she wants me to be the one to take care of the bills and just let her go to work and not have to stress about them, I agreed and I have done everything she said she needed me to do but she just keeps making excuses when I want her to visit or I go up to see her. All of my friends tell me to just forget her and go sleep with other girls but I can't I love her too much and am holding on to the little bit of hope there is. I have to take sleeping pills just to get 4 hours of sleep a night, and one time I tried to end it by putting a hose in the exhaust of my car but thankfully someone was watching out for me because my neighbor found me and saved my life. I just want to be happy again.

[PegNosePete]

Dude. You will never be happy with this woman. She is cheating and you know it. She is totally lying when she says they did not have sex. You cannot control her: she does not want to be a wife to you, she just wants you to pay her bills while she goes around having sex with other people. Are you happy to live like that? You need to file for divorce ASAP dude. She's gone, you need to move on. I don't mean move on with other girls, I mean get a divorce and reclaim your life.