headsashed Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 I think tomorrow (28th oct) or a few mins if you live in the uk will be a bad day for me,its my birthday,why will it be bad? ok,you all know my ex broke my heart etc but we had plans for my birthday,now ill be all alone lol,i also know she is going away for the weekend to the place where me and her spent all our holidays,even our 1st holiday,i think it will hit me. Her birthday wasnt so long back and we went away for that and i also spent a whole weeks wage on her a laptop,i wont even get a card lol, so while she is away enjoying herself in the place where we spent all our holidays ill be sat at home thinking. I dont have any money to go out either and my family have gone away so im definately on myself,oh dear. My last day to feel bad maybe because im going to view 2 new places on saturday,so my fingers are crossed for that.
eleanorhurting Posted October 28, 2011 Posted October 28, 2011 Do you have any friends around? I love birthdays! My birthday was in January about 40 days after a really bad breakup with an ex and it ended up being great!!! My friends brought a cake to school and brought me flowers and balloons! They really made me feel special. Happy birthday a little early! Do something you love for you!
Doona Posted October 28, 2011 Posted October 28, 2011 Happy Birthday, I hope you have an awesome day!! Go and find some friends and do something silly, you dont need lots of money to have fun.
immitable Posted October 28, 2011 Posted October 28, 2011 Happy Birthday have a great day! best wishes
melenkurion Posted October 28, 2011 Posted October 28, 2011 Happy Birthday. Try and treat yourself in some way, mate. Celebrate when your family get back.
radiodarcy Posted October 28, 2011 Posted October 28, 2011 happy birthday Headsashed! even if you don't have the funds to go anywhere, you can still make a day of it. take a walk - - or better yet- - go for a run. find places to explore. window shop (not as much fun as real shopping, i know). but just try not to stay in the house. besides, i'm sure you have plenty of friends who will be sending you best wishes on this day. so take comfort in that as well. one of the things that cheered me when i got dumped was realizing that while the ex no longer cared for me - - that didn't mean the rest of the world - - particularly my own circle of friends an family- - didn't feel the same way. i'm sure you know that already, by try to keep that in mind today as well. have a great day!
Author headsashed Posted October 28, 2011 Author Posted October 28, 2011 thanx everyone, im not feeling as bad as i thought i would but its still early, im going to try keep busy today so i dont think about her. Ive got a few things to do already,its tonight that will hit me so i might goto a friends house. My ex did txt me last night saying happy birthday but i ignored it, she also said that when shes at skegness (holiday place) its going to feel strange without me,its just going to be right different,i never bit either,plus i was fast asleep in bed lol. Im looking forward to viewing 2 new houses tomorrow,1 of them im 2nd best for that, as someone has been promised it,but the other 1 i can definately have so thats a good thing,and its going to be newly decorated,suppose that will save me some money lol. I suppose a fresh start is what i really need now.
fenderjames Posted October 28, 2011 Posted October 28, 2011 Hi H , same here . My ex crapped all over me the day before my birthday . I had an overnight bag as we had plans for my day , I picked it up and walked out of her home . Spent my birthday alone . I would like to wish you a happy biethday man . I know it wont be your best - your not alone friend . Cheers
Author headsashed Posted October 28, 2011 Author Posted October 28, 2011 MY birthday should be about enjoying myself,im trying my best to but i havent got any plans of yet... it does feel like ive been crapped on and this sounds stupid but it hurts more because i havent even had a birthday card from her,not that i want 1 but it feels like them 2 years meant nothing to her. Then again i got a text about an hour ago asking if she could borrow 1 of my dvds for tonight while shes away. She must think im stupid,why on earth would i borrow her a dvd when for all i kow she could be laid in bed with some other guy watching it. Either shes deluded or she thinks ive fell from another planet. Roll on when i get my new place,she wont know where i live,im getting a new phone and i wont have the internet for quiete a while so she CANNOT contact me in anyway, thats when ill properly start to heal.
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