nyckidd Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 My ex started seeing someone else right after our 2 1/2 year relationship. Never thought she would be the type to break my heart then stomp on it. We had sex last week(been broken up for 3, NC for 1) and after she said she couldn't do that anymore cause it made her miss me so much and so miserable. She then said she loved me and would talk to me soon. A few days later I found out she was talking to some guy. When I asked her if she had done anything else with anyone she said no (which was probably a lie) needless to say I am doing my best to move on and I am absolutely sure I never want her in my life again. Point blank. But, I have this urge in me that is so strong to just contact her once more and ask her why she lied to me, and why she would do that to me? And then let her know that I will never be in her life again EVER. Then the other half of me just wants to keep things to myself and never waste my breath on her. Just stuck on which one to do. I would love to call her and let her know how messed up she is and how shallow of a person she is. Any suggestions?
MIK1000 Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 It's definitely a rebound so don't beat yourself up about it. It will fail and then she will feel like even more of an idiot. Don't contact her, it will only give her the satisfaction of knowing that she's got the upper hand and you are bothered by her being with someone else. Just cut off all contact, it will piss her off big time.
flitzanu Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 you really think she's going to just open up and tell you why she's lying to you? nope. save your breath, she's sleeping with someone else anyway, and you're never going to get any answers.
Chi townD Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 Flitz is right, or she'll just say it's none of your business.
wilsonx Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 You are going to ask a liar why she lied.... hmm that makes a lot of sense
Author nyckidd Posted October 27, 2011 Author Posted October 27, 2011 You are going to ask a liar why she lied.... hmm that makes a lot of sense Haha good point!
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