Reginator Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 I'm only new to the forum as a poster but the last fortnight i have been using it a lot to reassure myself. However my situation hasn't seen to be covered. I had a casual relationship with this girl that i thought we were both happy with. I was thought we were both heavily invested in it, we were both monogamous almost to the point of a relationship. However she became friends with one of my ex-friends after a break up and they promptly started dating. I tried the usual begging and being sad for 3 days no texting or calling constantly but. I pretty much went straight into NC and she tried to contact me although i casually replied and then replied i was busy and went on with my day.I've only recently started LC after a month and half this week as i was feeling good and free and not dependent on her at all. I had pretty much made my whole fb private to her instead of defriending her. So therefore i could continue to have conversations with my mates concerning her, and not have to worry about her or any mutual friends seeing the conversations. But i think i may have changed it back to normal and in the process made some conversations public. They weren't at all bad, i said nothing bad it was just a girl i know saying my ex was immature and how good my life was now and asking how i was with the ladies. I only just noticed she is really trying to make me jealous, and it's isn't subtle hints any longer it's sexy status's on fb or wall posts to my friends to try and gain my attention. Tonight it was to obvious to ignore, she wrote on a public event I was hosting that she was to busy cause she was having sex although it was promptly removed. Ignoring the fact that's she's being a total bitch. Why would she go to such lengths to try and make me jealous?
Smiley2508 Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 I can only see 2 reasons a girl would even act in such a manner. 1. She's a bitch, that gets pleasure from trying to make you suffer. And it's just escalating because you're not reacting to it so she has to become more and more public about it 2. She still has feelings for you, and by a poor method of coping is trying to get a reaction out of you to show you have some feelings for her. although with that being said even if you showed her you had feelings for her wouldn't mean anything it would just reassure her that she had the power.
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